my bf has a hot temper sometimes.. like sometimes were doing good..then he yells at me because i sed something and hes mad.. then i t ell him to calm down and watch what he says..bcuz what he says sometimes are meann..so yesterday night he calmed down.. then later on..hes all ..your starting to piss me off agen.. like its so easy for him to get mad at me.. so hes kinda mean right so i just sed.. you know what its over.. then i hung up and he called me back.. hes all so you sed its over?..and i sed noo.. and its like he really wants us to be overr..iono help me.. only when hes mad hes mean..but when hes normal hes the most lovingest person alive.
2006-08-16 09:02:28 · 10 answers · asked by girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would run the other direction it sounds like the beginning of a abusive relationship and if he truly cared for you he wouldn't treat you like that. You need to love yourself and be confident to attract men who won't treat you like crap.
2006-08-16 09:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by twinsmakesfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and leave it now before you invest anymore time into it...I have been through this type of relationship and so have friends of mine, they NEVER work, or shall I say they NEVER end up turning out happy. I am sure your friends and people you care about have told you the same..its not fun, esp when things are going his way he is great...he is too selfish and insecure to be in a relationship with you at this point..don't waste anymore time. Good luck!
2006-08-16 09:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by sparklysparky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, girl, get your head on straight. This guy is asking for trouble, hence BREAK OFF THAT RELATIONSHIP! He's verbally abusing you, and the next thing you know, he could be physically attacking you too, and that's something not even you should have to deal with. Just because he may be the nicest guy ever, doesn't mean he can't be the worst guy too. Sorry!
2006-08-16 09:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by roverriffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you have the battered woman syndrome. You're making it sound like its alright for him to verbally abuse you. Men that verbally abuse woman usually end up physically abusing them. If your man can be easily angered like that, you really don't want to be with him. In a relationship communication is the key. If you can't communicate effectively without arguing you won't have a successful relationship so why continue wasting your time. Love yourself enough to let him go before it’s too late.
2006-08-16 09:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by loveangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an abusive relationship that is just starting to escalate. I would suggest that you get out now because it isn't going to improve until he gets full control of his temper. It is going to cost him big time and probably that will happen shortly. You don't want to be there when it happens.
2006-08-16 09:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but he sound like an asshole yelling at women is not nice and if he is mean i like you should think can you stand him forever i dont think so he dosent sound like a nice bf sorry
2006-08-16 09:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can get really ugly later - make it clear to him that he's gotta change or else you're leaving.
2006-08-16 09:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by sonalfemme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men get mad because of their own insecurity if you cant make him feel secure then you should leave him alone in my opinion.
2006-08-16 09:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by lookingtospoilu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's an asshole to u...back off and let him come crawling back....he shouldnt treat u like that...whata jerk!
2006-08-16 09:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind, your choices are: Accept him as he is, as he won't change............OR............. put up with it for the next 40 years or so...............The choice is yours.
2006-08-16 09:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋