please help before i lose my best friend?

Question

ok me and my best friend have been best friends from BIRTH (were related) and shes 3 years older than me, but we've always been really close, until she started dating this one guy. I do not like him at all!!!! He has hit her before and hes rude to our whole family. My friend obviously thinks she cant get any better, and he proposed to her and she accepted. Then they broke up like a month later, and i was ecstatic!!!! I told her that we could actually talk now and be friends again! Then, this guy called her and apologized and she took him back. I am so disapointed in her, and i know its her life and she makes her own choices but shes making a huge mistake! Im suposed to be her maid of honor! Ive talked to her a thousand times but she refuses to listen to me!! The WORST thing is that before they went out, she described him to me, and i had never met him ,and she asked if she should go out with him, and i told her go for it (going by her description) Please help!

Answer 1

Sounds like you've already told her how you feel, unfortunately you may just have to leave it at that. Remember love is blind, and if she really loves, or think she loves this guy, no matter what anybody says she's not going to leave him.
Give it some time, if he's really as bad as you say, hopefully she will wake up and realize it some day but it may take a while. Just support your friend as best you can untill then. Good luck!

Answer 2

im really sorry to hear about this,i think the best thing you could do is just let her no that your there for her,you cant do much more than that.if you try and get her to leave him she will end up falling out with you.just let her no your fellings but you will be there for her as she is happy but let her no also that your there for when she needs a shoulder to cry on and your be there if and when they dont work out.all the best