I have a beautiful 3yr old daughter, and i had no problem getting pregnant with her. But, me and my husband got pregnant a couple months ago and ended up losing the baby at 9 weeks. We waited a month, and now we have unprotected sex all the time, and still no baby. I dont want to fuss with ovulation tests but im worried that maybe im not fertile or if he has a low sperm count. Can anyone help me?
2006-08-16 08:52:39 · 7 answers · asked by JustMarried 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Since you have conceived twice, fertility doesn't appear to be an issue. It can take a perfectly healthy couple up to a year to conceive and you've only been trying post-miscarriage for a short time. Give your body a chance to recover and you'll likely get pregnant again.
2006-08-16 09:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, probably not.
When you have a miscariage, your body can take from 4 to 12 weeks (up to 3 months!!! ) to recognize that it is no longer pregnant. Did you get your period since you lost the baby? Your body will need some time to re-adjust and you need to allow it.
Your uterus needs to go back to its regular size before conception takes place again and your menstrual cycle might be a little off for the first few months You might not ovulate when you are suppose to, but you will still ovulate. Trying a month after a misscariage might be too soon. No matter how much you want it, your body just might not be ready yet.
Be patient and keep on trying. If you have growing concerns, I suggest you make an appointment with your OBYG and have all your questions prepared.
They will not do a fertility test unless its been a year you've been trying. While some people are blessed enough to conceive in a very little time, others take longer, but never the less they end up conceiving.
Best of luck!
2006-08-16 16:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest using ovulation predictors. Clear Blue Easy digital is very simple to use and pretty darn accurate--I use them. They are more expensive, but easier to use.
Also, I would encourage you to talk to your doctor and have your husband do the same with his doctor. They can run some tests to see about each of your fertility capacities. However, if you are under 35, most doctors want you to try for quite some time before they start running tests--let nature take its course so to speak. Plus, relax. If you are anxious to get pregnant, it will be harder because your body responds to that. Get the ovulation predictors, they will help you guage when it is the best time to have sex.
Good luck!
2006-08-16 16:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by sidnee_marie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes a miscarriage can throw your body off for a couple of months, also remember that a perfectly healthy woman can have a month where she doesn't ovulate. The medical standard is that you really try for 12 months before it's considered a problem. Best of luck to you!
2006-08-16 15:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not worry (stress is not good for you). Try to relax. There are many sites on the internet which can help you to estimate the best days for you and your hubby to have sex with a mind to conceiving. It could just be nature's way of telling you it is not the right time yet.
Let it come naturally, and all the best to you.
2006-08-16 15:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by majinsgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use this site from yahoo, I did and got pregnant both times.
Good Luck
2006-08-16 15:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure, but go to http://www.mymonthlycycles.com. and find out when u ovualte.
2006-08-16 15:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋