i get jealous of my bfs sister easily..there just pretty and skinny and seem perfect to me.. my bf gets mad at me everytime i say i get jealous.so he knows im insecure about myself. yesterday we got into a fight..and he sed i always keep him up late at night..and he sed AT LEAST MY sisters dont keep me up late.. and i got hELLA madd.. it kinda hurted.. he apologized..but still he knows im insecure..he says he cant take my bs anymore.
2006-08-16 08:45:12 · 4 answers · asked by girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all he is with you...he obviously likes you. You might want to talk to someone about how you feel about yourself. You need to like yourself. Being insecure stinks...TRUST ME!!! I was that way before.
You need to do something for yourself that will make you feel good about yourself. If you think that you are overweight and you actually are try to loose a few pounds. But sounds to me that your BF likes you just the way you are.
Take care.
2006-08-16 08:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by thejenjens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very insecure. It is not good that he compares you with his sisters, but you need to accept yourself for what you are. I'm sure you have many good points too. Stop being so hard on yourself and make the most of what you are. Jealousy will only make your life worse, so don't do it.
2006-08-16 15:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..so you admit that you are insecure. You have to try and get over those insecurities by questioning yourself and confront what ever it is that makes you insecure. Don't use you insecurities as an excuse because one day he will get tired of you and move on.
2006-08-16 15:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by starr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys hate a girl that is insecure with herself. Stop talking negative about yourself and realize that he is with you for the reason that he likes you and how you look. Be confident about yourself or you wil scare him away!
2006-08-16 16:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋