my bf lives with me & parents,things r bad and i want 2 leave him,what do i do?He spends more time with my sis

Question

my family are on his side. Im stuffed

Answer 1

If you are unhappy with him just tell him that he has to move out. Tell him that he has one week to find a new place to live.

Answer 2

No point staying in a relationship that your not happy with, Your gunna have to sit down with him, talk to him, explain things and explain that you feel the relationship should come to an end. I mean every relationship has its ups and downs so you never know the talk might do some good and you'll end up staying together.

Now with the sister problem, your gunna have to tell your sister to back away abit, make this a tester to your guy, if he starts chasing after her then you know hes not the guy for you.

If you've made up your decision that you don't wanna be with him anymore then just tell him, but do it gently, and don't expect it to happen over night either, give the poor guy a chance. Unless you really want him out then just give him a REALLY big nudge ;)

Take care sweetie

Answer 3

Wow... you are in quite the predicament. Is there a certain reason he is living with you and your family? Was his family bad or something?

Unless he moves out, you aren't going to be fully rid of him so the situation may be awkward. Still... if you don't want to have a relationship with him anymore, just tell him and let your parents know so they can help in any way possible.

Best wishes.

Answer 4

Kick him out of the house, its your house right? Tell him to go back home if he can make sure you give him 2 weeks notice though so he cant sue you or anything. If you want to leave him you should not be forced to stay with him even if he lives in your house. Ask him to leave nicely.

Answer 5

You need to have a word with daddy and get this guy OUT because he is probably doing both of you. Tell your parents either he goes or you go.

I'm assuming your cuture is fairly "westernised", sorry if this is not the case.

Answer 6

Just be honest for your and his future. If you feel the relationship is worth the effort try to stick with it.
But if you feel that you have moved on and the relationship is not going well it my be time to finish before you both get upset.
I can`t say it any stronger honesty,honesty and honesty again.
BigDave
P.S. all the best

Answer 7

I think you know what to do, your looking for permission to do it. Stand up for yourself now or people will walk all over you your entire life. No matter what it's not worth losing a sister over. There are more than enough men out there when your ready to move on.

Answer 8

u have to tell him ur not happy and how u feel if u want tell him u need space and time without him ask him 2 move out 4 a while

Answer 9

talk to your parents and let them know what your situation is be sure you have their support before trying to kick him to the curb. that way when you tell him to leave he can't go running to your parents begging to stay. keep in mind that once he isn't your boyfriend anymore that he may go for your sister and your sister may be cool with that. ultimately, he could end up back in your house.

Answer 10

Make sure that your parents are on board, and then kick him and your ungrateful **** sister out the door...

If your parents are not on board.... you are going to have to move out. Preferrably in with one of his friends. Then, stay for a few months just to freak him out. .

Answer 11

If you have to break up with him, you have to break up with him.

It probably won't be easy for you, but you just have to go through with it.


It might help to tell your family first - they'll be ready for it, and it'll kind of force your hand, to make sure you actually go through with it.

You're within your rights to have him sleep on the sofa until he leaves.