I'm still a virgin and he's... well he's experienced when it comes to that... does he expect me to be horrible for a while or would it help for me to know and do some stuff?... if so i need tips. I don't want him to feel like we have horrible sex or anything like that. I've even suggested not using any barriers because we don't need them... what would be a good way to please him?
2006-08-16 08:26:14 · 7 answers · asked by norma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you're a virgin, you're one of a kind. I suggest you wait till marriage, but that's up to you. Once you become sexually active w/one person, it will be hard to hold off from doing the same w/any future relations.
I hope you can hold up strong, and ask God to help you.
I hope you chose the right thing.
2006-08-16 08:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by ControVerse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there! Pre-marital sex has practicly destroyed the relationship I have with my fiance'. Many would reason that since we are actually engaged, that it's all okay. WRONG. It's not okay. Since that first time we had sex, we opened a door that cannot be shut. Sex has robbed our spirit and soul, leaving us both feeling empty and ashamed.
Sex is a very powerful thing. When used outside of the rules God (the one who designed it), sex is a destroyer and a thief. When used in context to God's design, sex is a builder, a unifier, and a gift straight from Heaven.
2006-08-16 15:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You other question had something to do with how to keep your bf from leaving you...so this is your answer to yourself? Why are you compromising yourself like this? I will put big money on him leaving you within three months of him getting what he wants, and then where will you be? Hopefully not pregnant...and if he has been sexually active (with or without a condom), your risk of contracting a sexually transmitted disease is one in three...gee, would you play Russian roulette with a gun that had two bullets and four empty chambers? Please have more self respect as he has done it with other and left them...what makes you any different, and why should you believe him? NO guy is worth what you will go through WHEN he dumps you. Please listen!
2006-08-16 15:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Iamstitch2U 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one besides anything, maintain comunication, u cant be good if u dont communicate. Second, dont be afraid, he has to be patient, just listen to what he likes
And the thing that mad eme a master and make my g/f dont believe me I was a virgin, watch porn and go to barns n nobles and read soem books about sex, specially the ones on lesbian love making, since they know a woman's body better than anyone!!
2006-08-16 15:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't you are ready to have sex if you have so many questions on your mind. Take your time. Think about it more. Don't rush into anything and don't let him rush you into anything either. Your virginity is a precious gift you give to the one who will treasure it always.
2006-08-16 15:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are ready then a good way of pleasing is riding him. You basically have to move in a circular motion and back and forth. It's like you are dancing. If you down with that suck him up that would really please him and stretch so he can bend you all kinds of ways.
2006-08-16 15:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, he knows your going to be a mess. you dont need any tips, because it should be all you when your losing your v. and dont do it just for him. but use a condom. std's and pregnancy.
2006-08-16 15:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by Brendan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋