My mom and stepdad have broken up 3 times and now theyre together again. I hate my stepdad. i dont want to see him and no one else in my family wants me 2 either but i want to see my mom.help please.
2006-08-16 08:10:52 · 4 answers · asked by Trevaman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think mother is a person in the world one cant leave no matter what!
even if i am to go through hell for my mother i would ! and would go to extremes to prevent same happeneing to my mother!
and in your case that you dont like your stepdad is something between you and some other guy
not between you and your mom
if you dont like this guy dont meet him but you should not ask your mom to separate because that would be harsh on your mother
i mean he is your step dad that means that there must be something in that man that your mom likes. and besides being your mom she is a complete individual human being too. she has every right to have a husband of her own choice.
keep loving her
keep seeing her
but let her live her own life too
love your mom !
2006-08-16 08:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mohummad Ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can continue a relationship w/your mother. You can explain to her that you're not happy w/the fact that she's with him, and if you can express to her your valid reasons, then do so. But, also tell her that because you love her, you will not be a pain about it. Spend time w/her and her only. You don't NEED to be his friend. But, don't overwhelm yourself w/the feelings that you have against him. It's unhealthy, and it'll interfere w/your mother-daughter relationship. Handle it as if you had a child and you were the mother w/an intolerable man. :) Maybe that will help. I hope you can heal.
2006-08-16 15:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by ControVerse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to your Mom. Tell her that not only are you worried about her, but that you're afraid and miss her. Tell her the reasons why you dislike your Stepfather and explain that you want her to be happy, and her being with this Stepfather isn't the best thing for her.
Hope my babbles might have helped in some way!
You're friend,
Turtle Power!
2006-08-16 15:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by Turtle Power! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your counselor at school. They can help.
Also
Boys Town National Hotline
1-800-448-3000
Good luck. Be strong and stay safe.
2006-08-16 15:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋