sex question????

Question

what can i do to make it last longer for my husband so that i can have some fun.... and when he goes make it go longer??? or is it possible??? because the longest it lasted is 10 minutes here lately and half the time i don't get anything from it

Answer 1

VIAGRA

Answer 2

First and foremost, the most obvious and logical thing to do is for him to give you more foreplay. You know? Use his fingers (wet fingers, don't let him touch your labia and especially your clitoris with dry fingers) and his mouth/tongue. Second, there're condoms designed especially for that purpose, and there's no need to feel too embarrassed to ask for them in any pharmacy. Third, and there could be more recommendations but this'll be the last (but not the least important), I personally recommend you try to learn as much as you can about tantric sex. You don't have to go all the way into it if you don't want to, but there're exercises that both you and your husband can do to make sex an overall more satisfactory experience. Breathing exercises as well as muscular (for both men and women), and then there're relaxation techniques, all of which can help your husband and yourself become better lovers. You can aslo try Yoga, as someone else has suggested before, for the best results. You should keep in mind that sex isn't a one way thing, you're in it too and half of the responsibility for whatever pleasure both you might or might not have is yours. It's very easy to blame your partner for the fact that you don't get satisfied, butthere's a good chance a lot of the blame isn't going where it's due. This goes for both men and women, obviously. Whatever you do, don't use any retarding substances or devices, like alcohol or rings or anything like that, because that won't solve a thing in the long run and it's not exactly the healthiest and most satisfactory thing to do in the short run either. Stay away from gels too because they're mostly a waste of your money. Some natural herbs and stuff like that can be good though, to increase energy and stamina, like guarana, for example. Another thing that shouldn't even have to be mentioned but I guess will have to be is that you should never squeeze your husband's penis to stop him from ejaculating, because that might damage his penile muscles and won't solve anything at all, just like the ring some people are talking about.

All of you people who don't know what you're saying shouldn't be saying anything at all. Some of your advices are more harmful than good. Have some sense of responsibility, will ya?

Answer 3

They make devices and gels you can use that are supposed to help make men last longer....the devices fit over the man's penis at the very base and constrict blood flow to a certain degree so that he is somewhat forced to last longer. I am not sure how good any of these really work but I can relate to your situation except that my husband only lasts about 2 or 3 minutes. You should check out online sex toy stores.....

Answer 4

Do a lot of foreplay, let him go down on you for a little bit to get you reved up. Also have sex with him more often because the more it is the longer it lasts.

Answer 5

When my husband drink, it could last more that what he normally does. Also, if you go to a sex toy store, they have a cream that helps them last longer. I cannot remember the name of it right now, but what it does, it numbs them. I bought it and my husband likes it.

Answer 6

Get him to start long distance running or biking. And then have sex twice a day for at least 10 days. (with him, of course) Go slow and when he feels the urge, take it out and give him a good hard squeeze. Good luck!

Answer 7

The best way to prolong a man's sex drive is to ride him cow girl style. That way you control how fast or slow to pound and how deep you want him inside you. Some how my wife knew this and tried it and you would be surprised that I was able to last upto 30 minutes. This way she got her orgasms too. Try it.

The thing is if you let your man pound you, then he is not going to last too long.

Answer 8

You can try foreplay. Also, there's mutual masturbation. This is where you let him explore you than you explore him. But if you're already doing that, or he's not into exploring new way s of pleasing his partner. There are numerous exercises to help increase a man's ''endurance''.

Answer 9

Cock rings

Go to your local adult store and find the spray to help make it last longer. It works.

Answer 10

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Answer 11

He should get you off before he even puts it in. It isn't your fault he gets his so quickly. He needs to put out an effort here.