There's this guy i like but i just found out that he not only smokes (which i despise very much but succombed to) but also sells drugs but not on a large scale, just small stuff just to earn a little change. I really like him but he's doing things that i don't like
2006-08-16 08:00:54 · 51 answers · asked by <3*tinkerbell<3* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know ... what kinda drugs?
2006-08-16 08:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If smoking is something you really despise in a guy, you're not alone. You have to realize he not only smokes but sells drugs too which is not good qualities in someone. I understand it's a hard habit to quit, but I dont know if he's making the effort. Also, to help him out, you could suggest he get a much better job than what you said he's doing now. You shouldn't settle for things you dont like, especially if its something you've always been against in someone, just because you may simply like them. It's not like this guy is you're only option and you're stuck with him. There are definitiely guys out there you can find who are non-smokers and still be the guy who does sweet things and is a great guy for you. =)
2006-08-16 08:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by DancingDiva78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hummmmmmmm.......les'see. You succombed to smoking, which you despise. Now you wonder if it will be good for you to consort with a part time drug dealer? Hmmmmmmmmm? The answer should be obvious, but I'll play along anyway.
Beside the fact that it is illegal, a certain amount of ruthlessness comes with the territory of independent pharmacology. Can you handle that? Also, there is ever present the fact that you succumb to temptations! Hummmmmmmm.
2006-08-16 08:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is forget you like him. He does all that you do not like. Obviously he does not sell drugs on a large scale just because he might be starting with this but eventually he will do more unless he gets caught before. There must be other guys out there to like, "this one", you NEED TO KEEP AWAY FROM. I'm sorry honey but it's the way the cookie crumbles and you seem like a good kid. GOOD LUCK
2006-08-16 08:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by ladydi9red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just the start. You dont like him smoking and now u have discovered he sells drugs, at whatever scale, thats not important.It shows his values. Shows that he will do such things all the time, depending what his motivation is, money or whatever. I am sure he does drugs himself too. And you know its illegal.
Please dont give in to things you dont like, at least dont make a habit of it, or you will end up in a big problem.
Trust your instincts.
Mine say, STAY AWAY FROM HIM!
2006-08-16 08:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are all ready succombing to things that you know are wrong how much longer before you start to use the drugs you have a red flag waving in your face what more do you need for the pole to fall on you dont be stupid leave it and him ALONE.
2006-08-16 08:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you should get all mixed up with this guy if he is doing all those things. I don't care how attracted you are you him or he might be to you. The fact of the matter is he is doing things you do not agree with, you should never compromise with your principles. Oh, here is a novel idea, he is druggie, or drug dealer. The last thing you need is to get yourself in trouble with the law. I know most girls are interested in bad guys but, you need to find you a guy you can take home to mom and dad to and be proud of it.
2006-08-16 08:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would say if you don't like what this guys does then you should just stay away, but it sounds like yo really like him. In this case you should grow close to him, so close the he loves you. Then you can influence him not to smoke, to drugs, and whatever else he does that you don't like. Because your something good in his life he will probably listen to you. Hopefully this will work for you, I know it will.
Good Luck!
2006-08-16 08:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by Black Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is called a crash.
you like him coz he seems good but a good person will also do good.
It is best to stay way or tell him another way to get money and make sure you say it as a good friend not as if your already going out.
My dad alway told me think beofre you say or do anything...Because what you have to say or do could hurt someone u love the most.
Tell him, if his parents knew what he was up 2 would he keep going?
Tell him that you wanna be his friend and help him out but sellin things like this you could get busted
2006-08-16 08:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never compromise your values for anyone else. Selling drugs is so dangerous anyway. So is doing them. This guy isn't right for you but I think you already know that. Find a man who has values that you do. That way you won't have to question your relationship.
2006-08-16 08:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by dlfoster67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him, sooner or later he's gonna be using that stuff or get caught... the worst possible thing you could ever do to yourself is put yourself in a situation that's going to cause you nothing but pain and suffering
2006-08-16 08:06:57 · answer #11 · answered by norma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋