it's hard to trust someone who is ur best friend, and yet she is willing to treat her bf really rude, mean, and just disrespectful. i have become his friend thru her, and it's conflicting for me to tell her i think she's been wrong. am i judging too much if i want her to know how it looks from my side? i would never want him to treat her that way....
2006-08-16 07:59:52 · 2 answers · asked by sasmallworld 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he has broken up w/ her, but they are still dating.... he has been open to talking about it, but she doesn't want to, which is strange. i have no feelings for him, i have a bf. but i feel sorry for him because as my friend, i have trusted this girl to always be a good person. knowing that she is deliberately hurting this guy just cuz she knows he'll "be there" makes me wonder what kind of person she is ... =T i guess i'm questioning her character thru how she is treating someone she's "loved" for 5 years...? i don't want to get involved, but it's hard for me to understand and respect her as a friend.
2006-08-16 08:20:28 · update #1
You do not want to get in this situation. If you tell you friend she probally won't like it unless she is an understanding person. Do you really know why is she so rude with him? If there is no reason for her to be rude and you have personally been present when it happens well I think she is not being nice however, this is not your business so try not getting involved. On the other hand, are you just sorry for him or are you feeling something for this guy. My advice is don't get involved nor take sides, let him handle it, if he's still with her, he must like it or he would have the alternative to breakup with her. SO KEEP OUT of this situation it will cause you a serious problem OK.
2006-08-16 08:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by ladydi9red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please watch out for the way your feelings are going toward the guy because of what your so called bf is doingto him you may find out that you may start to have feelings or pity for him and as they say one thing leads to next thing.and you wind up hurting everyone instead of making the problem better. i believe she will hit his breaking point soon and he will be able to handle her himself.
2006-08-16 15:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋