how can i have a lover r partner if am bisexual?

Question

i am an asian and i broke up with my girl in my coutry because of the long distance relationship..i like men also..



now am feeling sad and empty.. i need an inspiration..am a bi..i need man to understand and rto care for me

Answer 1

The first thing about relationships is communication (well apart from love and stuff :) and you (especially) should keep that line open. Explain how open you are to the gender different then the person you are interested (I will explain, if you found a guy, you have to explain how interested you are in girls also, understand?) Keep that open and it should be okay.

The only thing I would worry about is some bisexuals feel, while in a relationship, a yearning for sex from the other gender (again, like if you are dating a guy, you feel that you need to have sex or some release with a girl) this can be difficult and again, means you need to have open comunication with you date.

Hope it helps!
~Roger
If you have further questions you can just email me! I know all about it!! LOL

Answer 2

Being bisexual has nothing to do with being in a relationship with one person. Being loyal is a choice anybody in a relationship has to make. You sound confused about what being bisexual means. What is the question? Are you asking about which you should date or what? Whoever you want to date next is your choice. Maybe you should look at who the person is and not their sex.

Myth: Bisexual people just can’t make up their minds.
Reality: Bisexual people are often very comfortable and settled with themselves and their sexuality.

Myth: Bisexual people have multiple partners and/or can’t have monogamous relationships.
Reality: Although some stereotypes assert that bisexual people can’t commit to relationships with one person because they’re always attracted to people of the other gender, bisexual people are no more or less likely to have multiple sexual partners than gay, lesbian and straight people.

Answer 3

You say you are bisexual and just broke up with your girlfriend and now you need a man. Have you ever been with a man? If so you should know just how to go by getting one. Not just any man
but a man to understand you and care for you. Good luck in finding him.

Answer 4

Well, it's one thing to need male companionship, and quite another to need sex with men. Sex is meant to bring people together in a relationship so close that it cannot be broken without damage - either heartbreak or, if there isn't any heartbreak, then destruction of the ability to love and give oneself to another. In other words, it's meant to be permanent.

It is supposed to create a spiritual relationship between the two parties. If it doesn't, it destroys one's ability to have that spiritual relationship. God intended sex to bring together one man and one woman for life. This would tend to imply that homosexual relations impair our ability to be joined by God to another person.

And it just now occurs to me as I am writing that this is a matter of great consequence, because there are people out there who are in homosexual relationships and feel a spiritual connection of oneness. My question is: who is drawing them together then?

I think all of these things are something you need to think about very carefully before you get into a non-platonic relationship with anyone of either sex.

That having been said, it is entirely possible to live happily without non-platonic relationships. I've been celibate for over 22 years, and very much enjoy loving everyone pretty much the same. In this context, it is of much less consequence to me whether I even have a special someone, much less whether that special someone accepts or rejects my marriage proposal.

So what I would do in your shoes is go out and find people to love - in the 'love your neighbor' sense. The friend who needs someone to talk to, a shoulder to cry on. The person who has material needs - food, clothing, etc. Whatever the Lord puts in your heart to do for people.

And above all, with each person, as far as possible (this is a process, there are some people who are not easy to love), do it with an awareness that this is an opportunity to love God, as He has written: whatever you did for the least of these, you did for Me (Matthew 25:40).

This will open up the doors for you to experience in new ways the God Who is Love (1 John 4:16). This is my wish and prayer for you.

May He bless you richly

Answer 5

Sorry about the break up. I am attracted to both sexes also, and if you find another bisexual male, or a VERY understanding and bisexual female, you CAN have the 'best of both worlds'.
Good luck finding a good friend with a soft shoulder.
Andy

Answer 6

You can obviously have a partner whether you are Bi or not. If you were a straight man..then you would have a girlfriend..but that does not mean that you will not be attracted to other girls. It depends on you finding the person who is right for you.

Answer 7

My friend is bisexual & has 1 partner, who is a man, but she had a relationship with a woman.

Answer 8

Start by not being afraid of what you feel.

Then, I presume you are in college -- go to the lesbian/gay/bisexual group for a meeting.

Talk to people. Be affectionate and loving, but be clear that you want a boyfriend, not just sex.

Before you know it it'll be like "add water, instant boyfriend"

*hug*

believe in yourself.

Kind thoughts,

Reyn

Answer 9

I am sure you will find someone. Good luck.

Answer 10

then get a guy friend, if he doesnt approve you, get someone else, another girl