I am scared of sex, which some of you said is a normal thing. But there is another problem too. I dont really know if i am a good kisser actually i am confused. Is there something wrong with me???
2006-08-16 07:50:08 · 15 answers · asked by Angel From The Hell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hun, its totally normal to be scared of sex. i dont blame you im worried about all the dieseases and malesters going around these days. i dont know if im a good kisser either. my boyfriend wants to make out but im not really ready. im worried ill do something wrong. there is nothing wrong with you unless there is something wrong with me. i knwo a bunch of people like us. relax and wait until your ready. you will never find out if your a good kisser unless you try it.
Good Luck
2006-08-16 08:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres ntohing wrong with you AT ALL :) everyone goes through the same thing...after all its only natural to feel nervous about something that you havent tried before..and we've all been there! I'm sure that there are loads of people your own age aswell who are thinking the same thing, but are probabley too embarressed to admit it!
You dont have a problem-just do things at your own pace, and not at others, and dont give in to peer pressure or just do something cos your friends etc are. All good things come in time! and its definately not something to be afraid of, its great!
I would suggest that if you are "scared" of sex to wise up on it, so you know exactly what you are getting yourself into. Research it on the internet, and all of the pro's and "cons" (as such!) and wise up on protection and contraception. This way you wont be so afraid as you will know exactly what to expect. I hope this helps! xx
2006-08-16 08:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me i had the same problems but when it happend i picked it up really fast act like you kno what your doin and fallow every guy kisses differnt if your bad to one you can be good to anyother thats why i always kiss like the person im kissin it works good no one has ever complained and sex just let it happend go along but you have to make sure you are in the mood cause if not you will worry the whole way through and sex is spost to be injoying..the learn how to be good in bed watch porn and watch them chances are the first time you have sex with someone knew the guy is on top good luck
2006-08-16 08:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by chelsae c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as being a bad kisser its all to do with practice makes perfect am sure even the most greatest kissers werent so good to start with...buit youll get good the mre you practice///so dont think your weird....yeah...cheer up lol :) hope thats elpful
2006-08-16 09:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by SenSored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope nothing wrong with you, i am the same way and i have had sex and two long term relationships!!
its low self esteem or belief in yourself, which must have stemmed from somewhere so try and figure out why you feel this way....
i bet everyone deep down if they are totally honest are scared of how they perform in some way so try not to let it affect future relationships....
:)
2006-08-16 07:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're too young for sex anyway. There is no time limit as to when you have to lose your virginity. Just wait until you feel right.
2006-08-16 07:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should wait if your young... dont be shy about yourself.. im sure whoever you kiss wont worry about how good of a kisser you are.
2006-08-16 08:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely no rush at all and so dont let your self be pressured into anything you dont want to do.
When you find someone on your wavelength who respects you, then it will feel right. I think when you learn to trust someone you will become less scared. :)
2006-08-16 08:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by bananapancakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got some girls doing exactely like you do now! If you got a good partner, payn is too low to feel profound! I can not be your partner, cuz I`m far away, but you must get an 5-7older than you are!
2006-08-16 07:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
has somebody told you that you are a crap kisser?? i think someone has knocked your confidence and made you feel insecure
2006-08-16 09:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋