ok me and my hubby together for 1 yr already when we didnt live close to my family n my friends we lived about 1 hr away and was very very happy cuz i didnt have to worry about all these "hoes" tryin to talk to him n flirt with him in front of me" but now that we live by my hometown and i know all thse lil females they keep callin the house for him...he talks to them when im not around he makes me feel like he is sneaking around to talk to thse lil girls i dont want him gettin in trouble over these lil things but i dont want it to ruin our relationship. what should i do?
2006-08-16 07:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs Medina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's nothng wrong with your husband having a few female friends if their friendship does not exlude you. If it does, it is cheating.
If your hubby needs to sneak around or cannot talk to them in front of you, he is cheating. He who has nothing to hide, hides nothing.
He probably feels inadequate or insecure and it gives him a feeling of power to have these ladies in his back pocket. Maybe he is afraid to tell you what it would take for you to give him the feeling that he wants.
All guys have an ego. They need to feel powerful, desirable, and saught after. Have you forgotten to keep pursuing each other and trying to win each other over? Keep dating and flirting with each other. Atract flies with honey....
Don't be an "authority" he has to answer to. Find out what it would take for him to be satisfied with you and do it. Ask for what you want (you want to be #1 right?) and tell him what it would take.
Your goal should be to be so good to each other that you feel like calling all your friends to brag about each other......
2006-08-16 08:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with a married man having some female friends. If you trust your husband then you should not worry about it. My hubby has a few and I have made it a point to get to know her and hang out with the both of them. It works good for us. Remember if your husband doesn't want to stray then nothing another women says or does is going to make him. Good Luck!
2006-08-16 07:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by YHop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband not to talk to them and tell the whores not to call your home. How did they get your phone number anyway? You need to cut them off seriously. Tell them in no uncertain terms that you DO NO appreciate them calling your husband. If they persist, give your husband an ultimatum that you don't want him talking to those whores and if he does you will give him hell in return. Change your phone number if you have to. Keep away from those whores.
2006-08-16 23:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's married. He don't need to be talking to any other women at all. If you can't be around when he talks to them, and you think something is wierd about it, then it probably is. Think about all the crap he is probably talking about you when he's talking to these girls. Put your foot down, girl!
2006-08-16 08:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with jewells..why are there so many hoes in this place?? seriously? and how would they know ur number, hes acting like a bastard by doing that really
2006-08-16 07:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is in a marriage with you he doesn't need to be talking to other women. That is just wrong.
2006-08-16 07:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is married and wants to stay that way he should not have female friends especially single ones.
2006-08-16 08:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by turner32542 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should not be talking to other women period if i were you i would not put up with that for one minute.I would not accept any excuse from him either.dealbreaker definately.
2006-08-16 10:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by samwise25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel
2006-08-16 08:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by ardgo2112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋