I have loads of freinds, and they're all really cool. It's just that they're not that popular, and nor am I. At my previous school, I was really popular, eveyone loved me. But at this school, not a lot. The popular kids are sort of Chavs, and like RnB. I can I get them to like me? I'm not gonna explain it all, it'll take too long. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks!
2006-08-16 07:37:57 · 34 answers · asked by SikSonic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dude, dont try and get ppl to like u.... thats just annoying, just be youraself and ppl will come to u
2006-08-16 07:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by C. D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG why on earth would you wanna be a chav, they just get laughed at by everyone and all the "popular kids" from when i was at school are still chavs and they spend their weekends going to house parties and being off there heads in there stripey jumpers and tracky bottoms tucked into there sox (sexy- not) thinking they are it, and spend there weeks coming down hating life thinking where it all went wrong signing on the dole cos they are too depressed to work ,looking up to and being so jealous of the people who did well at school who now have lovely houses and children and great jobs and are genuinly happy! Do u honestly want this it might seem hard now but my advise is to stay away. If u still wanna be there mates by a cap that's too small for your head stick it up at the front put loads of gel on ya hair and have it spiking down like a fringe under the peak of your cap, get a stripey jumper with reebok splashed across or ellesse or even kappa!!! get som tracksuit bottoms and tuck into your socks and some trainers . oh you will looks a diamond! don't forget all your stolen gold big rings and them lurvely big link chain things. then start saying stuff like "u know wot i mean charva" there u go good luck ( i really hope u make the right choice good luck this decision could actually decide how your life turns out, you are at your crossroad, which path will you choose?)
2006-08-21 20:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah kiddo get over it
if people dont like you f**k em their loss not yours
you'll realise it yourself in a year or two what happens at school really has very little to do with how the rest of your life is gonna pan out
as long as your happy and the people who are around you are happy you've got it better than 95% of people out there
so dont worry about it, the so called popular kids will no doubt be signing on for their child support payments soon enough, i know the ones i went to school with were
not sure this is the advice you weere looking for, but i hope it helps none the less
all the best
noise
2006-08-16 07:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have loads of really cool friends, who cares if they and you are not popular. goet over it dude! jeez!
in a years time, its not going 2 bother u that much? popularity is a big thing when u r younger (im 27 now so not old not too young!), but it really doesnt matter. as long as u r happy beign yourself, and happyw ith the friends u keep, then dont worry about it.
your friends now r really cool, so dont change them 4 more popular friends who may not b as cool. do u like RnB?
dont worry!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-20 15:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by marzipanchan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be "popular". If you have loads of friends and have fun that's all that matters. That's why I like my school. There are really no popular kids. Some think they are, but everyone hates them and they never realize it. So, don't try to be. Be happy w/ the friends you have.
2006-08-16 07:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lovve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K .. first Ti's better to be respected than "popular" in the sense you mean. you have mates, you have your own style.. I like R&B but not so keen on what you define as chav types.. we are all different, dont try to compeate, just be your self.. Sadly some folk at school have no friends.. Unless what your not saying is that you are bullied?
2006-08-22 06:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by dianafpacker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. Hey if your not popular and they are you know what you should just do Hmm.. Well i would bring a friend go near them and talk to your friend and pretend your saying i have a skatepark in my garden and a rabbit and i have a theme park in my garden if they ask if they wanna come just say well we have to sort it out doe and try and be the cool peeps don't push it to hard do cause i think things might get to ... lieings well if you need help i'm your girl to ask man. i don't blame you.
2006-08-20 13:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude, but ur hardly going to get ne wer if u go around calling ur collegues "chavs"!
And I hope I'm wrong but I got the feeling u associate people with being "chavs" because the music they listen to!
Maybe if u took the time to get to know people, and broadened your mind u may jus get sumwhere, if not den I guess ders no hope 4 u!
2006-08-21 00:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by bizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have friends right? They like you right? Well then don't worry about being popular. You have friends so don't change yourself just to hang with the popular kids. Good Luck!
2006-08-16 07:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by caughtinthemoment77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who needs chavs for mates anyways, with chavs comes the drugs and the steeling. Stick with the mates that will stay with you till the end.
2006-08-16 07:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by Coley61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if you aren't popular anymore. Try out this new feeling of being unpopular. If you are pop, then EVEYONE is watching your move. And if you mess up, you fall of the pedestal hard.
2006-08-21 06:47:01 · answer #11 · answered by christi t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋