my boyfriend ask me to move with him to Kentucky but not marrie him until were ready.What should I do?
2006-08-16 07:32:32 · 19 answers · asked by mary c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stay home with your family, and see what happens after he leaves. Let him get settled first, find a place, get a job, then see if he still wants you to go. Take it from there.
2006-08-16 07:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by mixemup 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that yo should wait because if he is not asking you to marry him.You are giving up alot. I wouldnt do it unless I was married, so just tell him when he is ready to marry you,than you will move to kentucky with him,
2006-08-16 14:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel is right. If you are asking the question on here I assume you aren't sure and have doubts about the situation. Talk it over with family or friends they would have a better idea of what they feel is good for you to do.
2006-08-16 14:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sherrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how the thing is going with u and him if u really love him and want to be with him then take the chance and move if something happens u can always come back. go with him i am sure it would be fun. if your not in love with him and dont want to be with him then tell u that u dont see yourself moveing away
2006-08-16 14:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by tylers baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him you are not going to uproot your whole life and move out of state unless he is committed to marrying you. You also sound like you are probably not old enough to be considering this.....
2006-08-16 14:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want to do. I feel you have reservations. In that case, don't do it. Listen to your gut feeling because it is usually right. Intuition is a very powerful force and too many of us ignore it. Don't. Use it to help you through your journey through life.
2006-08-16 14:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is....How long have you been going out? Are you engaged? Well if you have been together for a long time, I say go for it, that is if you have a place to come back to if things don't work out. Good luck.
2006-08-16 14:39:04 · answer #7 · answered by km2bgrls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to and you feel it's a good decision, then why not. Plus, it will allow you to test drive the car before you buy it!!
2006-08-16 14:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it , live with him first and take if from there , u get to know a person by living together first . oh and get a job when you get there so u dont sem dependant on him.
2006-08-16 14:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay home...if u move only to b with him and things dont work out or he never marrys u then u r stuck...
2006-08-16 14:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by La Prieta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋