my boyfriend dumped me and even said that he never loved me. he only pretended to make me feel good. anyway now i am back with my hubby and i have lost all contact with him. a week back i emailed him saying that i can get an autograph of a star that he loves and i can send it to him. he said thanks and thats all. so, i didnot send anything to him and we lost contact. last night his best friend came online and asked about me. i was surprised cause i didnot speak to him after the breakup. he is saying strange stuff as we broke of because of my religion(we didnot breakoff because of that).and i clarified everything and wrote a strong letter to my ex. saying that he shouldnot spred rumors. he denied everything and said he didnot ask his friend to talk to me.what do you think is going on?why is his friend contacting me?he is the one who broke off cause he didnot want me to divorce my hubby and come to him?please help me!!!
2006-08-16 07:16:58 · 31 answers · asked by atahsina 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Iam sure he just wants to hit it up. just like his Friend. .. then give u the same story. ..about u being married. not a good situation. A lot of men out there trying 2 take advantage of ur current situation. dont beleive everything u hear. .
2006-08-16 07:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Dj Enigma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that his intentions with you wasn't good. He just wanted the thrill of being with you. Now he friend is in you guys business.He's just being a jerk. I say that you just totally cut him off from your life. Thats the past now. Just move on with your husband. Have some kids and get a new house. Take your mind off him and everything will be okay. Delete that friend from your list and make it so that he cant see when you are online. He don't know what he's talking about. Sometimes the friends just want to screw around with us.
2006-08-16 14:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Nice Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have a boyfriend and a hubby? This is not junior high anymore. Stop playing games and grow up. If you put as much effort into your commitment as you did to deciphering what the friend wants, you would be a lot better off.
2006-08-16 14:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by todiscoduck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a little immature and broke it off out of fear of what could happen between you two, and having to leave your hubby for him makes for a pretty dramatic start to it all. So, his friend picked up on this, whether he told him to or not, and is contacting you. The real q is, why do you care so much?
2006-08-16 14:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By trying to contact him,with the autograph thing you are still showing interest,and he expressed that to his friend.Which translates to MOST men who think with their dick that maybe you aren't satisfied with hubby and might want to give some up!Cut it loose unless you are still looking for extra-curricular activity.Hubby is a fool if he keeps letting you contact this guy! You probably should just start fresh with someone totally new!!
2006-08-16 14:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just using you for sex. And you he. Why did you go back to your husband? and were you divorced? or just cheating on him. Your question is a little confusing, however, my advice would be to break all contact with the exes and his friends. Ask your husband to forgive you... or if you're leaving him, then leave, and quit torturing the poor guy everytime you get bored and want to feel "love" again. Good luck, and think of others instead of yourself so much! ;)
2006-08-16 14:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by punkdrunkard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, the ONLY thing you need to focus on here is your life with your husband. This guy is an EX for a reason, and ex's need to be left in the past so you can move on with your life!
Block his friend on your buddy list, don't make any more contact with the EX, MOVE ON already! the more you get involved in these rumours and whatnot, the harder it will be for your husband to trust you.
2006-08-16 14:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have contacted your ex in the first place. Now explain your mistake to your husband and whatever is needed should be done by both of you together.Never commit such a mistake again.Do not start problems anew.
2006-08-16 14:45:53 · answer #8 · answered by rjbendre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they are both bad news. Maybe you aught to think about meeting someone else and leave them both alone. They seem to like playing games or at least one of them but you cannot tell which one. I saw forget them they are in your past move on to better things. Enjoy your life and soon to be new love and forget all about those who try to drag you down. Blessings.
2006-08-16 14:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say 2 u is dat..u dont need some 1 thats gonna treat u lyk ****.u can b strong and go find u some 1 els.
2006-08-16 14:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by *Ju~Ju* luvz Mikey.D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋