2006-08-16 07:06:32 · 48 answers · asked by Naazneen D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you already know the answer to this dumb question your just looking for someone to give you an good excuse to cheat on your husband or just hoping you'll find someone to cheat with on here dear go take a nap
2006-08-16 07:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you knew what type of life he lead before you got married.. so NO it's not OK to have a boy friend... You need to find something to do while he is gone.. if you don't have a job go get one.. Start a baby sitting thing something, but you don't need to go and cheat on your HUSBAND because you feel lonely. Marriage is some thing special.. Now what if your husband is actually being faithful, wouldn't you feel like a fool? Suppose the tables were turned and you were gone half of the time. would you like it of he cheated or had a girl friend on you?
2006-08-16 07:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk honestly with your husband about your desires and about wanting a boyfriend for those times when he is gone. Either your husband will be open to the idea or not; but both of you must agree on whether the relationship is to be open or closed. Otherwise, there is no agreement.
As it stands now, were you to take a boyfriend, you would clearly be violating you marriage vows and betraying your husband's trust. In which case, rather than do that, it would be much more honest, mature, and moral of you to divorce him and go find someone who can give you what you are seeking.
2006-08-16 07:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it just a friend who happens to be a boy then yeah but if it is a "boyfriend" someone who pay when you all go out then i say no that is the same thing as a affair and i bet your husband doesn't have any girlfriends when he goes to other towns so only if the friend happens to be a boy should you go with him and let your husband know that you are with him and get his response have a open relationship about everything good luck
2006-08-16 07:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by christy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st, Why don't you ask your husband? I suspect that you are afraid to ask him, because you already know the answer, so therefore it would not be OK. Speaking for myself, my wife & I both have friends of the opposite sex that we can spend time alone with. There is no jealousy because we trust each other & know that nothing intimate is going on outside of our marriage. If that is what you are talking about, then you would proceed to find a male friend to spend time with, but only with your husbands full knowledge & approval.
2006-08-16 07:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you love or respect your husband, no. You shouldn't have married someone who wasn't going to be around enough to suit your needs. You had to know what you were in for before he put the ring on your finger. The fact that you ask this question so casually is a bit disturbing. I feel sorry for your hubby.
2006-08-16 07:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is NOT ok to have a boyfriend if you already have a husband. UNLESS of course you have an open relationship in which you and your husband can agree to having relations with other people while he is away... chances are that won't fly though!
Don't sneak around, it will only lower your self esteem and leave you with a guilty conscience, not good!
2006-08-16 07:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you mean like as more than a friend like dating someone then definitely not. i mean if you just mean people to hang out with or go out with to have fun i guess that's ok but if you are married you should be faithful to your husband. that is the whole point of getting married, to be together with that person, dedicated to them, and staying loyal to them. perhaps a better idea would be to discuss your problem with your husband and see if you can find ways to spend more time together. not find other people to spend time with. besides its betetrt o talk to him about this than complete strangers on yahoo!.
2006-08-16 07:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by tim102289 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain at your place! You will thank me later! Anybody think that cheating is just a cheat...but is not like that! think about that time when you will see your husband face! Can you deal with? Can you stay chill, knowing that your husband could find out? Think about that first! Option! get a vibrator!
2006-08-16 07:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask yourself, this. If it was the other way around would you want your husband to have a girl friend. plus do you really think its fair to him that he's out there working and your at home with a boy friend.
2006-08-16 07:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋