I was at my boyfriend house and nobody was there but us 2. So he took me up 2 his room and we had sex and then a month later I found out I was pregnant. Now I dont know how 2 tell my parents bcus they dont like the guy.
2006-08-16 07:04:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well, whether your parents like him or not, they can't be slefish right now. There's a baby on the way and that should come first and foremost.
What does the boyfriend say about all this? I hope he will be there to support you. Any boy can make a abby but it takes a man to raise one. I pray he's man enough to stand by you, you'll need it, especially with obstacles to over come right off the bat. Everyone makes mistakes, but it's how you handle it that matters.
2006-08-16 07:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by helpplz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough one, but you have to tell your parents, especially if you are under 18 or still covered under their insurance. You will need to see a Dr. and soon. Do you know when your first day of your last period was? This will help you determine how far along you are, if it is past 8 weeks you need to see a Dr. ASAP. If you are especially scared of telling your parents write them a letter, or do it over the phone. Just explain to them that you love this guy (assuming you do :) ) and that he will be the father of your child, so it really isn't in anybody's interest to hold a grudge against him, for whatever reason. Needless to say, if you're young this news won't really help them to like your boyfriend, but your parents will grow to understand that they really don't have a choice, if they are going to be supportive and loving parents. Whatever you do don't wait to tell your parents. Maybe it would go better if you just talked to your mom and let her talk to your dad. Hopefully, you're close with your mom because you're gonna need her around. She may be the best person to tellyour father. My sister-in-law got pregnant at 15 and didn't tell her parents, or get prenatal care until she was 7 months pregnant. She had a horrible delivery, had pregnancy enduced diabetes, and the baby has some mental handicaps. I'm not trying to scare you, I just want to stress the importance of getting prenatal care early in pregnancy. Your parents love you, and even though they may be upset they are gonna be there for you, because that's what parents do. Good Luck and Take care! :)
2006-08-16 14:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by **hope/faith**1744 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure you are pregnant then the best thing to do is just bite the bullet and tell them. Say that you know it is going to hurt them but you want your baby and you needed to tell them before they figured it out on thier own. The fact of the matter is that you are pregnant so you will have to tell anyway, so instead of prolonging it just get it out in the open and there will be much less stress and once they get over being pissed off they can help you. Good luck!
2006-08-16 14:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by Mommy2Be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you didn't have any trouble telling a million strangers on the Internet, so what's two more people(your mom and dad.) I know that it's a scary thought, my mom didn't much like my boyfriend either, in fact, she wouldn't meet him until I was in labour, and even then, it was an accidental meeting...don't ask. But, you have to tell your parents. Yes, they'll be shocked and probably fall out with you for a while, but they are your parents, and will be happy for you eventually, if your showing that you are ready to be a mom.
I don't know if I have helped you, but tell them. The knowledge of how they have reacted will be better than wondering how they will react.
Good luck, honey.
2006-08-16 14:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and open with your parents. Ok so they hate the guy. So what. We all make mistakes. Its human nature. Whoever you have a closer relationship with, be it your mom or dad, pull tem aside and be open and honest with them. Then tell them you want to get an abortion. Your parents have a very very good reason for not liking the guy. And you dont want to have this guy be the father, especially at a young age.
Trust me, you have to be honest with your parents and tell them. I have a daughter who is 9, and sons 6, 10 and 14. I talk with them everyday about what is going on in their life, and I tell them on an almost weekly basis that they can confide in me anything and everything, even if they think I'm being a jerk, or being mean to them. I try to make sure there is always an open line of communication for them. You know?
Trust me on this, talk with your parents about this, no matter how mad you might think they will get, in the end they will always love you, and you will always be their girl. Tust me.
2006-08-16 14:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by jeff the drunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW are you sure you are pregnant? If so then they need to know. I would even write a long letter telling them hey this is what happend and now we have a precious baby on the way. Also they need to get you to the doctors. Goodluck
2006-08-16 14:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by embsmg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your MOTHER will know its a thing about mothers they have this extra sense and they detect your pregnancy. a mothers intuition! dont try and hide it and if you decide to have this child you better get ready now. and prepare yourself, when telling your parents they may resent you but dont worry they will always love you. just keep trying to talk to them about this especially your mother because your bond should be stronger. i have 3 girls and i hope to god that they tell me anything that is important and i would wish they tell me. i would be upset but their my babies and i cant turn my back on them. i hope your parents are supportive and i wish you the best. think this through and hard, especially IF your boyfriend decides not to stick around.
2006-08-16 14:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by ???? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mom first, when shes already in a good mood. or b4 doing that, show them both how nice ur boyfrens is. let them kow things they wanna know about him, nice things. let them accept him first, then a bit later (1 to 2 days) tell your mom when she's in a good mood. ask her what she thinks, if shes mad dont ask her to tell your dad. tell her youre sry, if u r. then ask her if she could tell ur dad. if shes mad u'll have to tell him yourself. they mite be mad for a while but they'll enjoy having a grandchild. dont bring your boyfrend in so much until you think your parents are ready for him. ask me more ! my emails:
kewlkrud@yahoo.com bye!:)
2006-08-16 14:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by free.the.roaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from personal experience just bite the bullet. Not good for you or baby to be stressed. Best wishes and good luck!!!!
2006-08-16 14:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have any of you young girls who are MYSTERIOUSLY ending up pregnant heard of madonna's song papa don't preach you should listen to it she has some good advice on how to tell your parents at least your father that youre pregnant
2006-08-16 14:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by tiffany b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋