Dont no what to do ??

Question

My friend seems to get all the atension from all the guys and she always talks bout it..i dont know what to do but its getting me really down...

Answer 1

hun, you really need to tell her how you feel or look depressed (or walk off) when she starts bragging, i think she'll get the message.
or be more flirtatious and get some of the action yourself ;-).
but i know what you mean, especially when they go on and on and on about it... example conversation:
friend: oh my god, and he actually stared me up and down
you: well, that guy over there, i think he likes you
friend: (purposley ignoring you) well, i'm gonna go talk to him, stay here with my bag.

they ignore you or always try and make it seem like they are more interesting, it happened to me just ignore them and seem uninterested when they talk about guys. but i'm sure there is somebody for you too, just be a good sport and don't rub it in when you get a guy =D

Answer 2

Don't worry about your friend, worry about yourself. Being attractive has a lot more to do with the way you carry yourself than you think. Body language says alot. Are you shy? Do you walk around with your arms folded? Do you put effort into the way you look each day? Make a list of all the qualities you love about yourself, personailty, features and emphasize on those best qualities when you're out and about. Take pride in who you are and don't sweat the small stuff, like your egotistical friend!

Answer 3

Poppy rather than let it get you down you have to something about it babes.

Remember this you need to be confident in yourself before other people notice that and give you attention.
So how about a new look try different hair,make-up and outfits.
Have your own look,better than looking like everyone else.
Also how you interact with men and over all the way you carry yourself being self assured but not cocky is very sexy.Just give these things a try before long you will be getting all the attention,Good luck xx

Answer 4

I had a friend like yours when I was young. I learned later in life that she was not prettier, she was just more assertive. The guys thought that she was "easy" and they knew I was a good girl. My friend use to make me feel like I was not as good as her, pretty as her, outgoing as her. in the end her life was a mess. Be yourself and don't let her get you down. I found a few new friends and put her on the back burner. You may want to try the same. She is making you feel that way because deep down she a very insecure little girl.

Answer 5

Try going somewhere the two of you like to take yours & her mind off it, maybe somewhere where you can't really talk to each other constantly, like a theme park. Only if you & her both enjoy these places though.

A good idea will be a film which the boys may not like, so it can be just the two of you so that she can't talk to you.

Otherwise, try changing the topic to something she can talk about just as much or tell her you don't want her talking about it all the time.

If you want to you can try getting a boyfriend yourself, that way if you spend all your time with him she may get jealous and want to spend more time with you, thus letting her see it from your point of view.

Or maybe you could try talking endlessly about something you like so she gets the idea, she will get bored of it and may stop talking about it so much.

Let me know if any of these suggestions work!

Answer 6

If she is telling you about attention she gets, or compliments, she has a problem. It is very bad taste to repeat a compliment that someone gave you, it's like trying to reaffirm "aren't I great, look at me". It won't last. You don't need attention from a lot of guys, you just need one. Be particular, the one that whistles at you on the street, or makes a comment about your anatomy or what he'd like to do, is not the person you want attention from. When you find "the one", you will spend most of your life talking...HINT...you need to find someone that is interesting and enjoyable to be with. Then who cares if your friend is getting attention.

Answer 7

You know what they say, the ones who talk the most about it.....
Don't compare yourself to your friend and if she is constantly talking about it, just try to tell her to change the record. You didn't say much about what goes on but did you ever think that maybe she is getting the WRONG kind of attention? So long as you respect yourself and don't feel pressurized into doing anything that you don't want to, I guarantee that eventually the RIGHT kind of men will be attracted to you.

Answer 8

You'll get your moment in the sun. When you do, you'll probably value and appreciate it a lot more than the friend who gets bombarded with it. Develop your qualities and talents and make yourself stand out- but be sure you don't do things that draw the wrong kind of attention just for the sake of getting some.

Answer 9

You have to look in that mirror girl and learn to love yourself!!! It sounds stupid but it does work.Don't ever look at the negative,look for all the things you like about yourself.It is all about confidence.never hunch,always stand tall.You sound young,confidence does come with age.It is just a stage in your life that will pass.Do little things to give yourself a boost.It doesnt have to be expensive,a new eyeliner,or some lipstick.When you look good you feel good.

Answer 10

Ignore her. Just because she is getting attention doesnt mean its the right kind of attention. The more she talks about it shows how insecure she is. She needs male attention to feel better about herself. When you grow up this will all be a distant memory I promise! Oh and a friendly reminder- SPELL CHECK