On my birthday my boyfriend wanted to go to the bar and i didnt so he left and didnt come back till sunday night which my birthday was that friday well this weekend a girl that was spost to be my friend called and said she slept with him but he and his brother boss and our friend david said it didnt happen is she tryin to start crap how do i kno if it is tru or not?
2006-08-16 06:46:44 · 20 answers · asked by chelsae c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not only that if he just made a mistake she wouldnt have said that she slept with him 3 differnet time and when i asked he his penis size she said 6 to 8 in and hes almost 9in and when she told me that she slept with him sunday i asked he when and she said late sunday night and he got home at 10:30pm that night so it dont really make since and his brother swore on his babys life he dont do that and his boss is 41 why would he spend his time with the **** you kno
2006-08-16 07:05:08 · update #1
Well ... what was in it for the girl to lie to you? It sounds like he probably porked her.
Well ... you know how your boyfriend makes love ... have your girl friend describe it to you ... exactly what he did ... and how long it took. You should know his MO.
2006-08-16 07:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would this girl claim to have slept with your boyfriend if it wasn't true? Perhaps your boyfriend's brother, his boss, and his friend David are simply covering up for him. I suppose you just have to listen to your gut. Why did your boyfriend go to the bars without you anyway? People who are in relationships shouldn't go to bars without their significant others... bad things can happen when you mix alcohol and mostly single people.
Why would this girl just be trying to 'start crap' as the guys claim? I would talk to your friend (the girl) more and check your gut feelings after wards to determine the truth. Be sure to be nice though... you don't know if she's lying or not and maybe she's just trying to do the right thing by telling you that she made a mistake.
Best wishes.
2006-08-16 07:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Hon, you gotta decide who you trust and believe in more. Your boyfriend or this girl who is "spost to" be your friend. Has your man given you any reason to think he may cheat on you? Has this friend ever done anything to hurt you? Think about it this way, what kind of friend sleeps with their friends b/f? Would you do that to her? I dont think she's a very good friend. Whether its true or not. She seems like and attention whore. And your man, you have to think about him too. It was YOUR birthday. Shouldnt he have spent it with you? If you didn't want to go to the bar, he should have stayed and spent it with you. Then the fact that he didnt come back for 2 days...that's kinda shady to me. But all in all the decision is yours. you cant know for sure what happened because you werent there. So it all comes down to who you know and trust more. I hope you find what you're looking for. And it turns out the best way for you.
2006-08-16 06:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by ~Gigglz~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't know for sure with that information. You need to talk to him. Tell him that you need him to be honest. Listen to your inner voice. Or at least pay attention because if he's lying you might get a sick feeling in your stomach. Well that could be lunch too. The truth is you can't know for sure. That's why it's sooooo damaging. You can either believe your bf or you can't. You are the only one who can figure that out. The only way to know is by catching him in the act. If he didn't cheat on you then you can't really know. There really isn't any way to prove it. Anything he uses as an alibi could be false.
2006-08-16 06:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If he is going to a bar, I am assuming that you are an adult (or he is in trouble). From your question, your boyfriend is not your major problem. Stop worrying about everyone, if he wants to you can't stop him, you can't isolate him or lock him up to keep him safe for you. Look at it like it is his loss, you don't care. Then get your butt in school, get the education (even basic) that you obviously need, and get a life!
2006-08-16 07:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by st pete rn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got 50-50% chances! That girl could had sex with your boyfriend or not! The important think is that she want him for herself!
2006-08-16 06:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight up. He'll say no. ( I'm pretty sure that he did. I'm sorry.)
If you get that gut feeling, you know, the one that makes you feel like he's lying, drop him.
If he's not even man enough to f***ing fess up then he's not even man enough to be with you.
2006-08-16 06:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by Boricua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your gut feeling? His friends may lie for him, are they your friends to?
You have to trust your instincts I think. Does she have something to gain by the two of you breaking up? does he have a birthmark? certain bed habits? or anything distinctive you could ask her to verify it?
2006-08-16 06:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by kimnwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get more information from all persons involved. Given enough facts you can decide.
2006-08-16 06:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your BF and GF in the same place and ask for the truth, you will know who's lying.
2006-08-16 06:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Len 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋