2006-08-16 06:23:18 · 13 answers · asked by motherof3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he needs to work on his foreplay skills, I find that the more time on foreplay the quicker the climax - plus foreplay is like sexy play - have fun with it, explore each others bodies and create new pleasures - good luck
2006-08-16 06:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to start doing his job! He should be as much or more concerned about pleasing you than himself. He is your husband and should do what it takes in foreplay or other ways to spice things up to get you tingley inside. If he fails to pay attention then you need to keep telling him. Also, let him know that an orgasm is not a given thing. He/you may do anything possible and it still may not happen. Just tell him to relax and enjoy your love and closeness. Good luck to you!!!Gary
2006-08-16 06:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to hear the cruel joke. When you get older that goes the other way. There will come a time when the roles will be reversed. So he better grin and bear it now because it will be your turn to spend the time waiting. You might suggest that he deal with it now if he would like the same consideration from you later.
2006-08-16 07:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, most women don't have an orgasm EVERY time they have sex . . . if you are not worried about having one, tell him it is ok . . . if you are dead set on it, too, then you need more foreplay, just on you first before he gets all up in there . . . use a vibrator will he is thrusting . . the added stimulation will be great for you and will even give him some stimulation he will like . .. try it
2006-08-16 06:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
foreplay is the obvious, but I found that being on top allows me to rub my clitoris against him which gives me a major orgasm. I was having the same problem but PROBLEM SOLVED. Good Luck
2006-08-16 06:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by been there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get really worked up and he is not just trying to get you to orgasm it should come easier. i have that problem too, but my husband don't just go for the gold, he likes to play alot. then when he goes for the gold, it comes in no time.
2006-08-16 06:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually make my wife orgasm first, via foreplay, then she gets on top - she usually has another before we're done. If you want to orgasm with him inside you, have him help you "get ready" then lie on your back and have him lie on his side, perpendicular to you - with your knees up - he lies under your knees to enter - deep penetration from this position, so be ready!
2006-08-16 06:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by sputternick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to have some foreplay ahead of time...have him lick until you are close and then slide it in you....or while he is sliding in and out have him rub your clitoris...that always works.
2006-08-16 08:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doing some stimulating foreplay and by the time he wants it and you both go for it it should come in no time
2006-08-16 06:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by jaimeblondz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not going to have sex with him anymore until he can start taking your needs into account.
2006-08-16 06:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋