i dont understand y guys are always calling me sexy and hot..i dont dress like a slut! i rather be called beautiful or pretty!! but it seems like all i get is sexy, hott, or i'd totally do u! damn..that makes me so mad..gosh..does it hurt to call a girl beautiful and love her for who she is. n not for her body!!!!!!!
ps..ya i kno that all guys arent like this but most r!
2006-08-16 06:21:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
We just don't know what you want to hear that's all. Some girls wanna hear they are hot some wanna hear beautiful. It doesn't mean they are slutty if the look sexy. Guys just wanna say the right thing all the time and sound cool doing it so you'll like us that's it. They are just bad adjectives to the wrong girl....
2006-08-16 06:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by de4life34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you should should chill. Whether a guy calls you sexy and hot .. or beautiful and pretty .. they mean the same thing. You are attractive to them. It is entirely possible to love a woman for who she is and to think she is sexy and hot. In fact that should be the goal. Beauty and sexiness are not only a reflexion of appearance. It also has to do with your character and attitude. I think that many men would agree with me when I say that slutty and sexy are very different qualities. So I think it is a mistake to equate them. Of course there are plenty of women who are not beautiful or sexy but are slutty.
There is nothing wrong with a guy complimenting you on your looks even saying you are sexy. If you decide that it is only the men who never say 'you're sexy/hot' or who never comment on your looks that love you, you are going to find relationships really frusterating. Look for someone who sees the beauty in all of you - your beauty and your sexiness but more importantly in your heart and your mind - how you care for others and the way your mind works. That's they key - that they appreciate the whole person. The person you are inside and out.
2006-08-16 13:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Audiophile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, men are driven by testosterone. The result is that even a woman who is perhaps only an 8 on a scale of 1-10 will still get a lot of attention from men.
Also, men are flirty. Calling a woman sexy doesn't really mean much.
Finally, much sooner than you can imagine, the years will pass, the compliments will fade, and you will wish that you could be pestered even a fraction as much as you are now. Enjoy the appreciation while you're getting it.
2006-08-16 13:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most human beings aren't intelligent. Therefore, they do not have a very wide vocabulary. It sounds to me that you attract men with low I.Q.'s.
Hang out around Law Schools or in places where wealthier, more educated men frequent. I'm certain that you will receive more intelligent commentary (you'll also notice that there will be a LOT of attractive females there; which will make the competition to get a comment more on you) on how personable you seem to be.
Otherwise, purchase a box of Thesauruses and hand them out to guys when they say you "look hot" or "have a nice bod" or are "one sexy broad."
2006-08-16 13:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexy and hot are the first impressions that us guys get. It seems that you get this walking down the street, places like that. Is there really an opportunity for guys to "love you for who you are" when they just see you? Accept the "sexy" and "hot" comments, and eventually they will lead down the road to "beautiful" and "pretty".
2006-08-16 13:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by mitchhodson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u even care for these kinda guys if u knw there are some better ones out there. u dont have to know it from someone if u are beautiful or sexy u should know it yourself.
Believe in urself
2006-08-16 13:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Manish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are all guys that want to nail you. It wouldn't be very masculine for a man to say Whoa! O my stars, you are beautiful. I mean I say it because I can, but most guys struggle to say the nice things. At least you know you are attractive to others. Just be happy.
2006-08-16 13:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry,about that,Stupid guys made fashion saying hot and Sexy.Actually they mean beautiful and pretty,understand and smile on there sturdiness.
2006-08-16 13:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way... The more comments that you get like that, the easier to tell that those are not the guys that you want to end up with. Find the one that respects you, and loves you for who you are and be his queen. :-)
2006-08-16 13:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by NJDominican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexy and hot are just other words for beautiful, don't be so uptight about it.
2006-08-16 13:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋