What is it he can do/or not do, to let you see he is in the bed because he likes you and not because he just wants in your pants?
2006-08-16 06:21:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If he didn't make any advances toward you, that would be an indication that he likes you for you, and isn't trying to have sex with you...he respects you enough to wait.
2006-08-16 06:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, wake up and smell the coffee. If you already let him in your bed, he already knows there is a good chance he may actually get into your pants. So why still wonder at this stage? Too late to wonder about his feelings for you now and for him as well.
It is the same thing when I go out with friends. I see girls cheating on their husbands and boyfriends but still they put a moral to the story: they tell the guy they are kissing with and about to sleep with during a one night stand to be that the guy is allowed to touch them everywhere but not to kiss on the mouth because that would be too personal and would imply the actual deed of cheating. You get the drift? I want to illustrate with this example that when you cross a line somewhere, at some point, it is simply too late to look back and trying to analyse any longer.
The guy is in your bed, invited by you. Clear you want him and he wants you too. A little too late to sit back and wonder if there are true feelings from his side.
2006-08-16 06:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by Avatar13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're just laying hugging and cuddling or talking and stuff it means he likes to be with you for you. But really, it's better to find out if he likes you before you climb into bed with him.
2006-08-16 06:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah real smart to go to bed with a guy
2006-08-16 06:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm if he is bed with you and he tries to have sex with you then it probably means he wants in you pants
2006-08-16 06:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he shouldn't be in the bed in the first place if you are not totally comfortable with him and his intentions, eh? :-)
2006-08-16 06:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by drakke1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants to crash and just doesn't care there's another body next him. offer yourself to him and i am sure you'll find that he isn't interested in his nap
2006-08-16 06:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Go! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend runs his fingers through my hair and just holds me
2006-08-16 06:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋