i been wondering about having anal sex, what pleasure do women get from this, i know the men get pleasure, but do you *** off of this, what benefit do women get
2006-08-16 06:20:58 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Grow up.
2006-08-16 06:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋
Though I've never done this, I'd like to share with you some stats:
1. Anal started from Roman era (based on physical historical evidence), which means it's been a valid way to pursue pleasure;
2. Per recent study, 30% and 50% of heterosexuals regularly practice anal sex (35-40% of women who have experienced anal sex find it pleasurable) ~ which means this darn backdoor thing rocks!
Ok, the benefits for ladies:
1. low risk of unwanted pregnancy;
2. a way to preserve female virginity;
3. by yielding more tactile pleasure for the penis, your partner will definitely love you more.
Finally, some useful tips:
1. ask yr partner insert slowly, gentlely and responsively to avoid pain and tearing;
2. make sure the use of lubricant and condom;
3. thoroughly wash all body parts placed in or at the anus, including fingers, before contacting the vagina or mouth.
2006-08-16 07:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by W Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a subject most women won't want to admit to but I am not the average woman. (LMAO) To be honest with you, anal sex is one of my favorites. The only problem is that you have to make sure your partner doesn't try to treat it like a Pu$$y. Your A$$ is not built to stretch and provide natural lubrication like your vagina. Make sure you are well lubed up with your preference of lubrication and allow him to JUST massage the head of his penis on your A$$. You might want to ask him to massage your butt cheeks while he does this or play with your breast to get you to relax. It will gradually slide in but don't rush. If you try to rush it it will hurt like HELL and not mention your A$$ might bleed. Take your time and it will naturally happen.
Believe it or not but you can actually get pleasure out of it. It feels like his penis is in your A$$ and your PU$$Y at the same time.
I won't promise you that you will *** because that usually happens when the clitoris is stimulated so try adding some vaginal toys to the experience and I am sure you will enjoy it.
Good Luck
2006-08-16 06:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For guys it is pleasurable because it stimulates the prostate, which can lead to ejaculation without even touching the penis. For a female, I'm not sure what the physical pleasure would be. However doing something different would certainly be exciting and depending on your personality it may be pleasurable.
2006-08-16 06:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by torabis80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all in the persons mind, some women hate it, and wont do it, others love it. I think its the thought of doing something forbidden that turns them on, a partner I had actually got satisfaction from it and would ask for it if she was really turned on. But to be honest, none of the women I know ever said that it did not hurt initially, and so there you have it.
2006-08-16 06:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line its a $hitty situation however to each is own if done right it can be the best thing but done wrong will scare you away forever lol. Easy tips to remember : RELAX no matter how much lube you use if you are not relax it will still hurt. Have fun with it and relax.
good luck!!!
2006-08-16 06:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by a_bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls can get off from this but i believe its harder. some women hate it and others love it. my advice is to try it, both of you understanding that if you don't like it then its over, but if you do then great! just be sure and use a condom. you can spread bad bacteria when you go from anal to vagina. good luck!
2006-08-16 06:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by kirkskitti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women really like it. Some find it painful. Some just think it's gross. It's a matter of personal choice, but you should consider that you can stretch and/or tear things that you'd rather not (your anal muscle, the one you use to avoid pooping in your pants and farting in public). Anal/vaginal cross contamination is a serious consideration and can lead to hellish infections. It can be "messy." And last but not least; It'll make his wee wee smell funny. :^)
2006-08-16 06:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by perfecttiming1 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
some women experience stimulation of the G spot & many climax during anal sex, but they work up to it.
2006-08-16 06:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be pleasurable. You have to use lots of lube, and go slow. It's best if you are in charge. You need to control how far...how fast. Once fully in, the feeling is wonderful.
2006-08-16 06:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You will never be constipated again. You will have all sorts of problems with your anus. You risk Hepatitis C, a deathly disease. You will have to wear incontinent pads to stop your bodily fluids from seeping. Etc., etc. Enjoy the pleasure..............
2006-08-16 06:27:24 · answer #11 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋