need help with walking up to beautifal girls, and talking to them without making a joke of my self
2006-08-16 06:02:00 · 5 answers · asked by surftight 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i believe it's all about confidence. not ego, but confidence. in urself. as a Man. as a Person. as someone who is Great, will Treat others with respect, and know how to treat a woman. know how to make good decisions. knows how to take care of urself, as well as others. those are great qualities in a man. if u are unsure of anything, just work on it; work on ur appearance, how u feel about urself, how u look, your mind, the ability to learn, and seek out things u don't understand. as long as u have an open mind, u can learn about Anything. including women. the more u work on urself and ur confidence, the more u will realize that you are a Great Catch..and therefore worthy of a Great Catch. so a beautiful woman who ur interested in is not someone u are intimidated by, but someone who needs to match up to you and ur expectations in a girlfriend. that way, if she doesn't like u, or isn't interested, it shouldn't hurt ur feelings or make u feel bad. because don't u want someone who Likes you? who wants to get to know you? if she doesn't want to, it's a waste of ur time. and not because she's a b*** or ur not good enough. it's just cuz that person is not right for you. the more u work on urself and ur confidence and knowing u are just a Great guy, will help you to learn about urself, and about others. who will be a positive, healthy, good thing for you. if someone makes u feel bad about urself, or negatively, than most likely that relationship will be full of problems. but if u can find someone who is a Great Person, just like you, then you will find it is easier to get thru things together. :) good luck!
2006-08-16 06:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u thing she is beautiful and u have feelings for her just tell her what u think about her and u want to know about her and let her do most or the talking.
2006-08-16 13:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bible says judge the spirit by the spirit.... if they like you, you're in....or at least in the vicinity... never lie, they get that a lot. Never say the obvious....you're pretty.... duh!!!! How about you have a really great smile, or are those your natural color eyes?
if they don't receive you well, give them about 10 years...I've never seen a bird that flew so high that didn't need to come down....
2006-08-16 13:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by dad of dallas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just have to muster the courage to go and talk to them. Try not to say anything stupid either. Just go up, introduce yourself, say "hi" and see what happens from there.
2006-08-16 13:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by mthtchr05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be normal. Ask what her name is. Make eye contact. She's just another person like you. Don't practice first....just DO IT.
2006-08-16 13:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋