I LOST FOUR DOGS IN LAST COUPLE YEARS... TWO TO CARS... ONE TO PARVO AND ANOTHER RAN AWAY AND PROBABLY DEAD
I TORE MY KNEE UP AND CAN BARELY WALK SO I CAN'T WORK... AND HAVE NO HEALTH INSURANCE
LOST $10K GAMBLING AFTER TAKING CASH ADVANCE FROM CREDIT CARD
OWE $30K IN CREDIT CARD DEBT....
MY HOUSE BURNED DOWN AFTER A LIGHTENING STARTED A FIRE
IS SUICIDE THE ANSWER?
2006-08-16 05:59:13 · 14 answers · asked by Laff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well obviously you have access to the internet so shut the F*** up! there are ppl in third world countries who dont have ****, not even an Fing piece of bread n here you are complaining. its ur fault ur in debt bcuz u went gambling. the other stuff well yea of course it sucks but **** happens, wat can ya do?... jUST MOVE ON and GET OVER IT! and another bit of advice keep ur dogs inside if u cant control them outside! and get an office job where u can stay @ a computer all day. go in a wheel chair. life is full of struggles but you have to try ur hardest to overcome them not give up!
2006-08-16 06:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now why would you think that suicide is the answer? I'll let you in on a little secret.....there are way more people in this world who have it way worse then you!!!
I myself have had a pretty crappy life. My Mom died when I was 15, I haven't seen my father in 24 years, but that is fine with me because he used to like to use me, my brothers and sisters and my mom as a punching bag. And other things. I then got into a relationship with a man who used to like to use me as a punching bag as well ( dumb me) But I got out of it. (smart me)
Look, things happen in life, be they good or bad, what you have to do is learn from them!!!! And I am sure ther are people in this world who love and care about you that would be deeply hurt if you did this!! Nothing is worse then having to go to a funeral with a mother whos son/daughter just commited suicide (ya I have had to do that too) So relize no matter what things do get better...life gets better.....So don't blow your life on being selfish!!! You still have a whole lot live!!!!! And trust me it wont be easy I have been in your shoes. The difference is you can buy/rent a new house, your knee will heal and you will get out of debt. My mom will never come back.
So for what it is worth I don't know you but I hope you take the hard way and not the easy way out cause everybody needs to live life to the fullest! Take care and hopefully I can here from you again!!
2006-08-16 06:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by live~laugh~love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of lives are worse than yours. My sis in law just lost her first and only baby. I've lost two myself.
Some of your problems are your own fault. Don't gamble. That's pretty simple. Quit using your credit cards. Pay them off a bit at a time. My husband owes 35000 in student loans.
I've gone through much worse than what you described here. Abuse, rape, losing everything I know, my child was assulted. You are feeling sorry for yourself. When you just think of the negative things you will feel down. I try to see that my life has also had good things too. I am sorry but I can't stand that poor me attitude. It's all about your attitude, yes you've had it rough but what are you going to do about it? Sit around and moan or get up and do something about it? Suicide is NEVER the answer. It's a permament solution to a temporary problem. And I think it's a cowards way out. Quit complaining and do something about it. I'd like to suggest that you volunteer at a soup kitchen, a domestic violence shelter, anything. Helping others who have similar or worse problems usually helps you to move forward and feel better.
I'd get some therapy too, you sound like your too close to the edge of dispair and you need help to take a few steps back. Try to think of something good in your life. There has to be something!
2006-08-16 06:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by dlfoster67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mans car just got repoed
My dad and grandmother have cancer
I had to drop out of college to take care of them and lost all my credits that I needed because of that and there was only a month left in my classes to recieve credit.
I had to spend a month in jail for something I didn't do
Half of my family is on drugs
I lost contact with all my friends
My man and I are about to separate
I might have to have brain surgrey next year
**** YOU ARE NOT ALONE AND SUICIDE ISNT THE ANSWER WE ALL JUST HAVE TO WORK THROUGH LIFE AND MAKE THE BEST OF IT!
2006-08-16 06:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by ProudSexySouthernGirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, suicide isn't the answer. Sounds like you need to be a little more responsible with your money. As for the dogs I am sorry to hear that, but the money situation id you own doing,and the house, sorry!!
2006-08-16 06:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by chicamexicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull yourself together!! The gambling and caredit card debt are not bad luck but rather stupidity on your part.
Are you ghetto?? If not, then pull yourself up by your bootstraps and go get a job.
2006-08-16 06:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be kidding me... the point is the way you look at it I'd see good things, well you can obviously commit a suicide but.... dou really wana lose a chance to fix it, life has a funny way of fixing stuff
2006-08-16 06:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...is not the answer. What you need is a friend to talk to and see things in a different way.
2006-08-16 06:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by There! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i see that you are still alive, but yes there are some people out there who lives are way worse than yours.
2006-08-16 06:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit your whining. many people have is a lot worse than you. go live in the mountains as a hobbit, that is your answer.
2006-08-16 06:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋