I think my husband is cheating, but I have no other proof than his behavior toward me and that he is defending her and paying her phone bill and she has access to our pin number and credit card number which she has used.
2006-08-16 05:59:03 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whoa!!!!! Very dangerous. How can she have the pin number to your credit card?????? That's preposterous!!!!!
He is definitely cheating. He is very bold. Divorce him Now.
2006-08-16 23:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's alot of proof right there if she has access to your credit cards and has your pin number .... don't tell me your the kinda girl that has to actually see him f****** someone else in order for you to know the truth .right? you better open your own account and your eyes.......
2006-08-16 06:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by tinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What other proof do you need?
Other signs are:
-Not answering cellphone when you are present or going outside talk.
-Outregeous phone bills to teh same number
- Odd phonecalls at odd hours.
-Recurrent hung-ups when you answer the phone
-Consistently being late coming back from work.
-Emotional withdraw from the marriage
-Being anxious of being in public with you and wanting to go back home or go somewhere else without you.
-Extreme attention to his physsical appearence: new clothes, working out, wearing cologne, etc.
-Not wearing the wedding band
-Picking on fights so he can go outside the home.
-Making excuses to get out of the house.
-Sudden "work" meetings at night or weekends.
-Stories that don't make sense and blurry explanations
-Money comes out "missing" and no clear explanation is given to justify over expending.
-Unexplanable charges to the credit card
-Emotional and/or physical violence
etc. etc. etc.
Good luck
2006-08-16 06:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee, that's alot of proof right there. What else do you need? Are you sure you want to know more? How much hurt can you take? Time to bite the dust! Hit the road jack! ( you would make a good private detective )
2006-08-16 06:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by sonny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"There isn't a worse blind man, than he who refuses to see".
Paying her phone bill? Used your credit card? Sister, open your eyes! there's two approaches to this situation.
A. Close your eyes and go on, hoping he will just get tired of her.
B. hire a detective, get proof of the affair and NAIL his sorry two-timing butt!
2006-08-16 06:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just report to you bank that someone other than yourself or husband is using your credit card, and make sure you let him know after you've reported it, and that you also made a police report, Then he'll have to explain what's going on.
2006-08-16 07:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by maribel_crrll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gauranteed this will be the most crude answer on the list.
When he comes home late and you suspect he has been with her, drop straight down and attempt to give him a BJ. His reaction, and/or scent will tell you all you need to know. If that doesnt convince you, nothing will.
2006-08-16 06:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems like pretty good evidence to me.
Who is she anyway? Why would she have that information?
2006-08-16 06:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what more do you need? using ur money to pay her bills.
2006-08-16 06:10:13 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-08-16 06:04:02 · answer #10 · answered by ibrushallday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋