the brother always ignores me but is ok to talk to other people and his brother my boyfriend says that he is a quiet person and thats how he is. but i think it is very rude and i get the feeling he dont like me.
2006-08-16 05:51:35 · 28 answers · asked by sexy babes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it doesn't matter.. ur not in the relationship w/the brother r u? okay then.. not everyone is gonna respect u or like u, so u should just deal w/it and keep it moving..
2006-08-16 05:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 22:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when people are shy, they usually give out 'rude' vibes to other people. If you know what I mean. Or unless the brother is gay, and is jealous of his brother and indirectly mad at you, since your brother is enjoying a heterosexual relationship with you. Or either, He likes you and hates you for going out with your brother. Or maybe, he just doesn't like you at all. Or maybe he likes you and you are just assuming things. Or maybe, the last one, he just wants to ignore you so that his brother doesn't think he is hitting on his gal!
2006-08-16 06:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by after9miles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to the brother about it? I'd recommend approaching him without your boyfriend around to complicate matters. But don't criticize, whine or complain. These are fast ways to turn someone on the defensive and get them angry or irritated. Just be honest and open. And be prepared for what he has to say.
2006-08-16 05:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by bellebutrfly03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you take your bf's advice and leave it at that....some people are NOT talkative. Some are actually irritated by constant verbal interuptions. You two seem to be opposites. His quietness may have nothing to do with liking you. Don't be on the defensive so much, take things as they come, and your life will be better. Good luck
2006-08-16 05:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine he's just very shy..
i mean im sure if you speak to him he at least replys..
then i would definatly say he's just shy.. i'm a quiet/shy person and i never really go out of my way to talk to people and people seem to think i'm snobby, stuck up or i dont like them.
but really i'm shy.. i dont' know what to say.. i don't know what to talk to them about.. i'm not good at conversations.. so if someone is willing to lead the way then that works better for me..
so maybe if you wish to have some more talking time with him.. think of some conversations that might interest him
2006-08-16 05:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe he doesn't. at least he's not mean to you. perhaps he's just not used to you being around, how long have you lived there?
try to get to know him on his terms. if he plays soccer, ask how practice was. if he likes computers, ask him about some new software you thought about purchasing... that kind of thing. Also, he might feel like a third wheel being around you and your boyfriend all the time.
2006-08-16 05:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is the brother living with the 2 of you???
2006-08-16 05:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you there for your boyfriend or his brother?
maybe the brother does that so your boyfriend don't get mad or jealous. think about it put yourself in there shoes how would you want your sister to act? you would want to know nothing could ever happen between them right. so maybe this is the best way he knows how to keep peace.
2006-08-16 06:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by Julie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and see if he has a problem with you and when its all out in the open the two of you can try and work somthing out for your boyfriends sake..good luck hope everything works out ok..
2006-08-16 06:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by poppy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever consider that he's very immature and is jealous of his brother and directs his resentment toward you by ignoring you?? Just a thought...
2006-08-16 05:57:47 · answer #11 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋