Answers that would break them emotionally, no physical harm.
2006-08-16 05:48:15 · 9 answers · asked by Spy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If he/she was a friend...i'd tell him/her... "You were never my friend. I was just using you. Did you really think we had an emotional connection? Of course not!"
Worked for me...
2006-08-16 06:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by shardraco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Forgive and forget; let go of the past and make a pledge to focus only on the future.
2. Apologize and mean it. Admit your mistakes and regrets and affirm your commitment to making good on past wrongs.
3. Accept that you will have to do a great deal of chasing, especially if you messed up the relationship the first time around. You will have to pull your ego in check and put your heart on the line if you are to make any progress.
4. Don’t expect him to come running back to you just because you are putting out signals that you want him again. You want him back and you need to do the work. Call him, text him, come to him and make him feel wanted. It is the only way.
5. Expect some rejection. When an old flame starts heating up again the person being pursued may try to get out of the fire. This doesn’t necessarily mean that he isn’t interested. It could mean that he is spooked. He may be weary of trying to be with you again out of a fear of more hurt or he may be in another relationship and his heart may be torn (in which case expect more resistance than you would experience under other circumstances). For whatever reason people rarely rush back into an ex’s arms right away. Be diligent, expect some resistance and be aware that in this endeavor your ego is going to get some bruises.
6. Know when to give up. This is not so much indicated by the amount of time that has passed as it is an accurate reading of his true feelings. Your instincts are your best friend in this; they rarely lead you astray. Instincts often tell a truth the heart is unwilling to accept. Listen to him, listen to your gut and back off if one or both are adamantly telling you to.
7. Be willing to settle for less. Be willing to have him in your life as a friend even if he won’t be your boyfriend. There are lots of reasons why a guy who cares for you will keep his distance after a breakup even when you are sending out all the right signals and it isn’t always as simple as him not wanting to be with you. Accept that (for now) friendship is all he has to offer you and then truly be his friend. Nothing is set in stone when it comes to love and things often feel over when they really aren’t. Sometimes the greatest loves are built on strong friendships and you can never know what the future will bring.
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/loveanddating/a/winhimback_5.htm
2006-08-16 12:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cease being a part of their life. Do not talk to them or acknowlege their existance. If you want to "get back" at someone obviously they are not worth your time. Don't waste any more of your life worrying over this person. The sooner you move on the sooner you will make a new friend.
2006-08-16 12:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by Laura N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games. Be the best person you can be. Life is a circle. What goes around, comes around.
2006-08-16 12:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by experienced 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Living well is the best revenge. Be happy. Be cheerful. Even worse, be polite and cheeful to them.
2006-08-16 12:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hands down, without a doubt....BE HAPPY and BE SUCCESSFUL! Success is the best revenge ever!
2006-08-16 12:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by MaHaa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them completely.
2006-08-16 12:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see Karma coming your way soon.
2006-08-16 12:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
mean mugg the sh**t outta them
2006-08-16 16:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by GodOfWar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋