Yes, this is true. I am just wondering how many of you all think this is wrong. My parents don't know about us, and I am wondering if I should continue in our relationship. (which does include sex, yes)
2006-08-16 05:44:04 · 53 answers · asked by Disu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am with someone my own age. I am with a 14 and a 13 year old aside from her, also having sex. (I'm da man!!) And one of the reasosn why is I look like an eighteen ear old, six feet tall, act more mature than a fourty year old mature person (at times), a genius, and am..er...Well, let's say it's a little big...Even for my size.
But, I am also with a 22 year old hotty female, who is in private relationship with me. We try to be careful, and not get caught, etcetra. I use protection (usually) and don't really mind.
2006-08-16 06:01:04 · update #1
Wow. You must love her so much! I bet you can't wait to visit her in prison - that's where she's going to be.
2006-08-24 05:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are thirteen!!!! You are a baby! There is no reason you should be having sex with anyone, let alone three girls and let alone a 22 year old. You have to think about it. No matter if you look like you are 18 or not, you are still 13. It is illegal and why would you want to be with a sick girl who is attracted to a 13 year old? Youa re in 7th grade and she is entering the real world. You will no know what bills are for another 6 years!!!! You are screwing with yourself and with all three girls you are with! You are no genius!!!! You can't spell correctly and no genius would be sleeping around at thirteen or would have the stupidity to be asking this question. I could go on and on and tell you how lame this is, but it isn't worth my time because you don't really care. I was there! I was 15 dating a guy that was 26. It was wrong, it was disgusting and I con't imagine seeing a 15 year old now at my current age! It is gross!!! Stop having sex, find a good friendship and try to grow a good relationship with your family, because you are obviously lacking that if you are resorting to sex with a 22 year old and others!!!!!
2006-08-24 04:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by JuliaGulia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on a path of destruction. Some guys might cheer you on because you are getting so much "stuff". You are 13. You shouldn't even be having sex! You can feel and act mature all you want, you are still a CHILD! Don't try to be grown so fast. It's not worth it in the end.
As for your 22 year old girlfriend, she is a "pedophile" in the eyes of the law, the sex you guys are having is called "statutory rape" and if someone sees you guys, knows your ages and makes a phone call, she's going to jail!!! She will also have to register as a sex offender and her picture will be posted on a website for the entire nation to see!
That, my 13 year old asker is what's real! Neither one of you are thinking straight. You will hurt your parents if they find out and her life will be completely destroyed. Now soak that up! Ask yourself, "Is it worth it"?
Sorry to put it so hard, but reality is that no matter what we do that feels good to us, we must do what is right or suffer the consequences! You have much growing up to do - not height and weight-wise, mentally. And my answer is NOT meant to be an insult or an attack!
2006-08-23 10:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by NGE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it that you are a male?....by your Avatar.
Then this older woman is a low life "Child Molester". I know a part of today's society would consider you a big "Macho" man and at one time even I would have too. But I'm older and wiser now and know very well how an impressionable young person like you can be hurt by such a person. Even if we were to put the sex thing aside in this case there are many other insidious ways to "Molest" a young man like yourself. In example....by offering and making available to you Liquor, Drugs, Unhealthy sex practices or by placing you within the sphere of corrupt elements of society with similar persuasions, etc. etc. And there are many more etc's. Many can compromise your relationship with your family and loved ones. Please don't think that I think you are a moron, extremely immature or any such thing. But what you are at this age is "Impressionable"...which can be very dangerous to you under a manipulative older person. Drop this relationship and inform your parents about it...it will definitely be for the better of your life. You have plenty of time for sex, good wholesome sex so don't let an older person of 22 yrs. old be your partner at such a tender part of your life. I know all this can seem very old fashion especially coming from a person who's nickname is "The Oltimer" but try and look at it from my perspective of EXPERIENCE and common sence. God Bless You and keep you.
If you are only making this up, as a lot of 13 yr. olds have done....then stop it you are not going to fool most of us.
2006-08-16 06:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by oldtimer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong on so many levels. But the biggest reason is because there is such a vast gulf of life experience between the two of you. I hate to spout something almost all of us have heard before but there is less of a difference between a 42 yr old and a 33 yr old as there is between your ages now. You should be thinking about your first dance and such... not if your girlfriend made it home safely from the bar or not.
I can also say as the mother of a 13 yr old son... if you were mine... she would be in jail... quickly. I don't think there is a state in the US where that is legal.
2006-08-16 06:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ghatta74 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think & know it is wrong. Number one that person can be locked up for having sex with you. You are a minor and can and would be in big trouble. Are you ready to be a parent at 13 ? think of all those possibilities. I think that you should seek to end that relationship enjoy your youth date a 13 or 14 year old someone that you can introduce to your parents, someone who understands you. I am 22 years old and I dont know what I would be doing with a 13 yr old, I would never put you in that kind of danger. Please think it over and end that type of relationship. You can still be friends with that person but please do not date them anymore it is not right.
2006-08-16 05:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by Joyann R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AGHHH!!! You are sleeping with a 22 year old? No insult intended, but what that hell does a 22 year old have in common with a 13 year old? I think that until you can find someone your own age, you should keep your legs closed because if he gets you pregnant, you will never see him again, except maybe behind bars, where he belongs!!! Also, are you ready to be a 13 year old mother?
2006-08-23 05:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by Poetic Soul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its very wrong.
Ok even though you say you're mature smart and all the other things you listed. Why would a hottie thats 22 years old want to be with a kid?
Shes got a problem, a mental thing, and its called PEDOPHILIA.
2006-08-24 04:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by ironica7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah it wrong this guys is a perv he need to put in jail he know that he not suppost to mess with a 13 yr old girl like urself if u was my daughter i and found that u was mess with a 22 yr old man, 1 he goin to jail, 2 u getting ur *** beat cause u don't have no business having sex anyway u too damn young.
2006-08-20 15:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by sunsetlove718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda wondering what is wrong with the 22 year old that they would want to date a 13 year old?? JUST TOTALLY WRONG!!!
And for that matter why are 13 year olds dating???? Maybe I am old fashioned but should you not be out skipping rope or something???
2006-08-24 05:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by Chiclet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRONG...ILLEGAL.....and man...you're a 13 yr old that thinks he knows it all...You're NO genious....in my book....What you're doing is against the law...and the 22 yr old could be imprisoned not only for satuatory rape, but you are putting this person in jeopardy of being listed as a sex offender....for the rest of their lives.
At 13...you're only thinking with the head that can't think....you need to alert your BRAIN that sits on the the top of your head....that the consequences for your SELFISH acts has consequences that could hurt alot of people...
Man oh man...If I was your MOM...I'd string you up by your short hairs!!!!!
2006-08-24 00:39:13 · answer #11 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋