My fiance has a fantasy of getting f***** by a guy.... he keeps telling me that it is just a fantasy and he would never act on it... but i found his profile on a gay site....
2006-08-16 05:30:24 · 28 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i can say this much plzzzz be carefully on his every action ...be sure abt ur guy ...just find from his frds and others abt him ....IF POSSIBLE
2006-08-16 05:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by zeba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The fact that his profile is on a gay site is a red flag. If he would never act on his fantasy, why is he going through the trouble of setting up a profile?
I might have a long talk with him and see if perhaps you should not get married.
2006-08-16 12:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Laura N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried because I really don't think straight guys have fantasy about a guy. Straight guy have fantasy about being with 2 or 3 girls not guys he is guy also he on gay. he gay gay he is just still in the closet. I would leave
2006-08-16 12:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy or not your marrying a gay guy. Have you asked him about his profile on the site?
2006-08-16 12:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how much more evidence you need....He obviously has issues and you need to decide if you're willing to stick around and talk with him about it. If he went as far as to put his profile on a gay site, he seems pretty about what he wants. If it was just a 'fantasy' he wouldn't have done that.
2006-08-16 12:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men don't have this fantasy. And most men do not put their profile on a gay site unless they have intentions.
You are in a dangerous situation. You are risking your very life by sleeping with this man. Not to say what it will do to you emotionally & your self-worth. Run!
2006-08-16 12:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's actually very normal to be curious. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you or that he's a closet gay. It just means he wants to experiment. I have the same feelings, fantasize about being with another woman, and I would love to act on it, but I am very very much a heterosexual woman. I like MEN. I'm not gay in any way shape or form. I wouldn't even call myself Bisexual. Just curious, which if you're a very open-minded person is very normal and doesn't mean a thing. I wouldn't worry. I would worry about diseases though....I hope he knows to use condoms...
2006-08-16 12:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be super worried! With all this talk these days about men being on the "down-low" you can't put anything past something like that. And if your guy is having fantasies about another man sexing him, that's just not normal for a straight heterosexual man. If he is having fantasies about being w/ another guy, chances are, he wants to and will act on if the opportunity presents itself.
2006-08-16 12:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by Pear Cakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD BE WORRIED NOW BECAUSE HE MIGHT BE GAY... AND YOU FOUND HIS PROFILE ON A GAY SITE....WHOA TELL HIM HE NEED TO STOP TALKING ABOUT GAY THING AND ALL THE FANTASY ABOUT THIS. AND IF HE KEPT ON GOING END IT NOW. BEFORE IT GETS WORST THAN THAT.
I WONDER IF HE DID WHAT HE WANTED TO HAPPEN WITHOUT YOU KNOWING THIS. OHH CRAP AIDS AND HIV OTHER STUFF NOT LOOKING GOOD.
2006-08-16 12:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...yeah. You don't just have those kinda fantasies unless you are gay or bi. Did you question him about the profile and was it a dating website or something?
2006-08-16 12:47:21 · answer #10 · answered by Coco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be worried....especially if he has posted a profile. He is looking to act on his fantasy.....
2006-08-16 12:36:17 · answer #11 · answered by nursingsec8066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋