We have been together for almost 3 years.It's not the first time he ran away,he always came back to see me or I will keep trying to get him.He ran away for stupid reasons like I was saying why is he using the phone in the toilet and he said break up!Wth,we fought,why is he doing this and he hit me and tried to run out of our house.He is not perfect.I still love him alot.I mentioned before that i would need money back someday when he finish college cos i support him.We fight alot honestly but i really love him.We had sex then the next morning he was going to college.He kissed me and as usual said promise to be back early,i will call you,love you dear.Then at 8.30a.m he smsed me that he owe me too much,i am the best darling in the world,he will go and get paid to send me money.After that,his phone is off.I am so depressed.What should i do?I can't talk or see him.I don't even know if he is coming back.WHY did he do this?WHY?How can i get him back?Will he ever come back to me?I love him.
2006-08-16 05:26:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl, I wouldn't say I understand your feelings now. Of course I don't feel the exact way you're feeling now. Maybe it's time for you to let go. Not necessary means breaking up or leaving him which is impossible for you now. Letting go means relax your feelings for him. You're holding him to close to your heart and that's why whenever something goes wrong, you're deeply hurt and you'll be lost. No matter what reasons he gives you, the only way to keep him with you is to have yourself back again. Where is the You in the past before getting together with him? The smile, the confidence, the laughter, the wink, the independence, the sense of humor... Give the relationship a break to breathe again. You're holding things too tight and it hurts both sides. If he loves you and it is meant to be good, he will be back as a better person. If he doesn't change, no matter how many times he comes back, he will be gone in the end. Guys never answer WHY when they hurt you though they always tell you WHY when they are wooing you. When you're asking why, they asnwer you 'sorry'. No point asking when you won't get the answer. 1st, be yourself. He will be back. Begging, crying over it will not help. It will only tells him that he has all the power to leave you again and again because you're dying for him and will always be there when he is back again and again. So don't let him do that to you. Love yourself, honey :)
2006-08-16 05:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Qoute of the Day - If you let something go and it doesnt come back to you, it never was yours to begin with.
Sweetie, love yourself and don't occupy your time with thoughts of whether this man is coming back to you. Don't send him money, don't support him anymore. When and if he does come back you must let him know the situation is now on your terms. If he loves you , he will agree to it. Always protect yourself.
2006-08-16 05:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by lesolesrvivor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out were he's at talk to family friends somebody if they don't want to give up any information be your own police and find out what happened. And for why he's doing this i don't know why maybe he wants you to chase behind him. I honestly don't know. find out whats going on and be careful.
2006-08-16 05:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by kelly s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds like a loser. Seriously find someone new. He isn't worth it. If your supporting him and he hits you, there is something wrong there.
2006-08-16 05:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by Gotquestions?? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
where he went to find money??
2006-08-20 17:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋