There is this boy that lives in my neighborhood named Cliff. He is so cute. I know I like but I am not sure that he likes me. I was riding in the car with my mom yesterday and he smilled at me and I was so nervous I turned away. When I see someone I really like I get weak and very shy. How will I ever talk to him? HELP ME PLEASE.
P.S: I am close to his brothers and they says he likes me. But i dont know if they are messin with my emotions or any thing.
2006-08-16 05:22:50 · 21 answers · asked by Kandi Gurl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i doesn't hurt to try. But you can try these sure methods to find out if he likes you.....
1. Tell him something stupid/retarded and see if he remembers, like you could tell him you're scared of dots. if he remembers that later on in a conversation that means he's really listening.
2. Ask him for a weird favor that will make him go out of his way to do it. like can you help me do my grocery shopping or something but go super early that way he has to wake up. if his willing to do it then that means he likes you.
3.try to make him sort of jealous and see his reaction. hope this helped
2006-08-16 05:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter. Just be straight w/ him. example: Cliff ,
I was just wondering if you'd be interested in hanging out w/ me some time. Watch a movie, go shopping , out to eat, etc. just as friends.
If he doesn't want to you don't have to feel stupid Standing in front of him , w/ some embarrassed look on your face. Maybe he likes you but he is too scared to say something. Good luck!!!
2006-08-16 05:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by 1smartmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it your young if he doesn't like you after asking him out to a movie he might be interested in then simply reply that's alright i was going thought i would ask and walk away do not show it bothers you because his reason for not going could be legitimate but if he is not interested and chooses not to go don't get depressed it doesn't matter because your young you will find a boyfriend i promise i was in your shoes thirteen years ago and had guy tell me no but i have had many more say yes since then and you will to
2006-08-16 05:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by chloe dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...first of all, you think he's cute, but do you really know the "real" him?
1- Just become friends with him and get to know him. Do NOT go with the intent of becoming his girlfriend because you will have too much pressure.
2- After you start hanging out with him, you'll get a better idea if you really like him or not.
3- If he refuses to hang out together, you have your answer. You will also know by the way he treats you.
2006-08-16 05:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by p_boxter03 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
awww that's so sweet. girl u better talk to him!! get him before someone else does... i'm sure u guys would be good together. i know how u feel though. i be in the same situation sometimes but i just shake myself and have the courage to talk to him. just like say hi everytime u see him and then ur gonna start to feel more confident. so then u would start to talk to him more and more! and u would start to like him more!!! it works all the time sweety so good luck!
2006-08-16 05:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by •°iiFia1125°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sounds like you are really young and you are not ready to put your heart on a plate in the open. Take your time when you are ready you will know what to do.
2006-08-16 05:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by sane_nut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter. Don't tell him your head over heels and things like that cuz boy get their head gassed easily. Tell him you wanna hang out and stuff like that and see what his response is and take it from there. If he doesn't, don't get to bummed about it, cuz boys come and go.
2006-08-16 05:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask his phone number or msn messenger to chat with him!!
Get used to talk to him there, so when you get more comfortable and so will he, you can tell him what u think about him. Or maybe he will the first one telling you...! hehe
Or if your embarresed to ask HIS's phone number or email address ask one of his friend's or brothers...!!
Good Luck
2006-08-16 05:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by ☆hello☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang out with him as a friend and dont think of him as your crush because its always easier to turn into a relationship after your friends already..since youll understand what he thinks and youll get to hang out with him to see his personality since most of the time guys act different around girls.
i hope i helped
2006-08-16 05:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by nj_bigdog_jr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow and dont seem too interested. Let him make the first move. Hope it works out for you
2006-08-16 05:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by so sick of being broke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋