2006-08-16 04:55:39 · 18 answers · asked by PI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is dismissing your feelings and being selfish! You need to have a serious talk with her and tell her how this makes you feel, that just because she may not agree with how things make you feel, does not mean it's stupid. If she continues to act this way you need to break things off with her. I was in a relationship like this before and it headed south REAL fast. It turns out that when something bothers you, you can't tell the other person because you are afraid of them telling you that is stupid and you shouldn't feel that way, so you keep things bottled up...NOT GOOD to do in a realtionship. communication is KEY in any relationship. You will wind up resenting her and the relationship will fail if she does not change this. And in turn in future relationships you'll have to break yourself of the habit of keeping things to yourself because you are used to be calling stupid for the way you feel. Talk to your girl and let her know that you are serious and this needs to change, that you are not going to continue having her tell you that you're stupid for feeling a certain way.
2006-08-16 05:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay sweet pea, first of all..get some self esteem! I don't care if it's women treating men this way or men treating women this way, this is self destructive and emotionally abusive behavior. You either sit and suffer miserably for the next how many days, months, years or you stand up for yourself and let a bad thing go! I know what I'm saying seem so much easier said than done, you'll make the excuses (I love her, I've invested so much) beleive me honey, when a relationship turns abusive in any aspect you aren't losing anything but a lot of grief!!
2006-08-16 05:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by puffjonesforpresident 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goddamn. He' hinting that he needs you to shed some pounds. next Time your talking grimy merely be like " i'm getting kinda pleasing. And the considered your wide body being on suitable might want to sense incredible. i have continually needed to sleep with heavier men" do not merely say no longer something even as he obviously insults you, say somethig back to him, yet act innocuous about it. If he confronts you and says " what's that think to recommend" then you definately say " the same ingredient, once you reported you want your large lady, and that fat human beings can moan, or possibly once you accused me of being inscure and advised me i grow to be eye-catching."
2016-11-25 20:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone whos cares about your feelings. We need more guys like you. Women complain when men dont express their feelings not when they do your girl got it twisted
Tell her you hate and then see how she reacts
2006-08-16 05:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you shouldn`t let your gf treat you like that. xP i sometimes say that to my bf but i`m kidding around, & i think he knows that. like i`d call him stuff but yeh never mean them. so, if she makes you feel bad you should still talk to her. & if your feelings are still "stupid" dump her & find someone that respects you and your feelings. you need someone better [:
2006-08-16 05:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by scatteredth0ughts_ x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. She sounds insensitive to your needs. Communication and understanding to your emotions is key in a relationship.
2006-08-16 05:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask yourself why you are still dating this girl? Dump her and move on. You don't need someone talking to you like that.
Good luck!
2006-08-16 05:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let it get to ya cause those r your feelings n u should find sum body else to share yo feelins wit
2006-08-16 05:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by yo houson texan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she can't accept your feelings, that she can be replaced with someone who cares.
2006-08-16 05:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by Dlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your family some education.
2006-08-16 05:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋