My husband whom i left 14 years ago has always said he still loves me. Recently he told me a girl he was seeing had a baby and it's his. I left my husband for another man because this man always put me first. The girl who had the baby was only for sex and never told my husband she was off the pill and i belive trapped him. He is seeing the child. I am unsure of the way I feel. I ask why i'm still interested after all these years. I still have feelings for him. Is it possible to build a relationship with him. He say he was never emotionally involved with the other woman.
2006-08-16 04:45:33 · 6 answers · asked by justinoc1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Move on,never go backwards in life always go forwards.An ex is an ex for a reason.
2006-08-17 18:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even go there. It was way too long ago. Maybe you only think you still have feelings for him because now he is harder to get back because of committment to baby. Move forward with your life, not backwards. There were reasons why you left him - what will have really changed? We always want what we can't have and then are disappointed once we get it... be careful!
2006-08-16 11:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by sammi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it could work out if you are both willing to work at it.
Men are often ruled by bodily needs and it is more than possible he just went with the other female (and others) just for s*x.
It is at least, in part, dependent upon whether or not you feel safe putting your trust in him again.
2006-08-20 05:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would also say, your ex is your ex for some very good reasons. but then stranger things have happened. why not try just going out a date with him, and seeing how you feel and take it from there, wouldnt like to see you gettin hurt.... so just take one step at a time, and you will soon find out how you feel.
2006-08-20 02:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you start dating and see how it goes? don't rush it, just enjoy each others company for a while. Treat him like a new boyfriend. You will soon know if you want things to go further.
2006-08-16 12:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ellie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE LOVES YOU - you don`t love him?
2006-08-16 12:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by B.B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋