Do you guys think its possible for him to be for real I mean because together we are great we have good communication and able to talk with each othere if there is a problem. I am completly head over hells in love with him to he just makes me feel so loved its great but whats your opinion just curious
2006-08-16 04:43:58 · 10 answers · asked by florlatinspice0825 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yesterday we were watching this show where this guy romanically proposed and he said that this made him think and then he asked me if I would consider marrying him and asked what kind of ring I would like
2006-08-16 04:44:58 · update #1
ok I ma not talking about marrying him right now I mean years from now like 2 years or 3 but not right now
2006-08-16 04:56:27 · update #2
I believe it's possible to feel the desire to marry after one month. I mean, it doesnt happen often at all obviously, but that is how I felt after 1 1/2 months of dating.
2006-08-16 05:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by sigtauslimer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one month into a relationship is too soon for proposal. You can have strong feelings for one another and talk about the future, but i would hold off on an engagement till the relationship is a little further along. You learn so much more about the person when all the "newness" wares off. Congrats on finding a guy you have such good communication with though - keep that up, it will help your relationship stay healthy.
2006-08-16 04:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Any one who would start talking marriage after one month is some to steer clear of.
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Two or three years from now? You might not even be in the same city two or three years from now. You might as well make plans to have dinner at the local pizza place on July 12, 2009.
2006-08-16 04:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One month?? Are you kidding? No, you should definitely NOT marry this guy after only knowing him one month. That's not enough time to really get to know someone. Also, you need to get to know his family too. Let him know that you aren't at that stage in the relationship yet. Marriage is for the REST OF YOUR LIFE. One month of knowing someone, even a really good man or woman, is not enough time to make such a life altering decision.
2006-08-16 04:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One year is not long enough so one month is out of the question. What is the rush? Take the time to date and get to know each other. Don't move in together. In two years you will know if he is the right one or not.
Good luck!
2006-08-16 04:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty odd that 1 month into the relationship he's practically proposing... A little fast, don't you think?
You should tell him, "I really care about you, but I think it's too early in the relationship to be thinking about marriage. It's a definite possibility that I would say yes, but we'll cross that bridge when we get there. I want to see some trees along the way."
Good luck! :)
2006-08-16 04:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by Slippers 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he was thinking out loud. You know like I like this girl and things have been going good so maybe if I asked her to marry me would she. Then you were there and he said it, I'm sure he's not serious like I want to go to vegas and do this next weekend.
We men don't admit it much but we think about marriage and things like that. We usually just don't talk about it becasue women either run or get all crazy on us.
It's cool that he was comfortable enough around you to think out loud like that.
2006-08-16 09:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its nice to know he would be open to the idea, but if he askes anytime soon, be scared. you should be together a while before you start talking about things like that.
my bf asked me if i would live with him after only dating about 6 weeks. i was excited but all my friends told me not to do it too soon. its been over 3 years and we still havent moved in together!!! not because i didnt want to, but for lack of money and a place to live. but at least i know he still wants to.
2006-08-16 04:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend said the same to me, then dumped me 5 months later cos he felt tied down, its just the excitment of frist getting to know some one
2006-08-16 04:57:41 · answer #9 · answered by Pinkywinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts! you hardly know the guy. Get to know him better before getting married to him. You are going to stay with the guy for the rest of your life. So, you must know the guy well & sure he's the one for you so that you won't regret later.
2006-08-16 04:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by CM C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋