I've been hurt by men in the past and I have a good freind who treats me like a queen. But she's gay and I'm straight. She's been coming on to me and though at time I feel uncomfortable I somestimes like the attention. I know it's not right, but I like the attention. She wants me to be her woman. I
like her alot but I just nerver traveled down that road and it's hard for me to even start something like this if I know I can't finish. What should I do? I'm desperate for answers.
2006-08-16 04:01:40 · 14 answers · asked by diane b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It looks like you might be vulnerable at this point, don't venture out into something that you might not be ready for. You need to emotionally heal before you can even pursue another relationship if not your just headed for disaster. Good luck!
2006-08-16 04:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET YOUR HEART DECIDE!Only you know what you feel.Once and for all don't let others tell you it's wrong.If the attractiion is there go for it,If you are worried about friends or family(or what they might think)if they love you they would support your feelings.Go with what YOU feel,not the actions of others.Ask yourself one thing,is it because I've been hurt in the past or do i really feel a connection to this woman?Don't ignore your heart whatever you do,do what feels right for you.Besides you never know if it's right unless you give it a chance!Don't be scared,go with your instincts and never second guess you feelings.It could be the best thing that has ever happened in you life!
2006-08-16 11:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell this girl you need some time to yourself. Don't let her coerce you into something you would not do if you were not in a vulnerable position. Take some time to think about how YOU feel and whether or not you want to go down that road. It sounds like this girl is all too in a rush to start things up and when people are in a hurry like that things usually do not work out well. Take your time; there is no rush to make a decision. Be firm with this girl. Don't let her push you around.
2006-08-16 11:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl have you ever heard of one bad apple spoils the whole bunch! Don't get me wrong I'm not against gays more power to them but if u don't want it don't do it that is a life changing experience.Be careful of the company u keep because people will try to influence you of coarse she wants u (new meat) plus ur in a sensitive state now join the gym u need some time alone
2006-08-16 11:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by dj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you know whether you would like it or not with out trying it. By definition a soul mate can be of either gender. More modern scientists are exploring the fact that we have have some bisexual tendencies the main barrier is religion. If your religion forbids it and you can't get past that then end it now oe you will never forgive yourself. If you can get past it go for it you will probably like it, i don't know anyone that has hated it.
2006-08-16 11:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your straight, then you will feel uncomfortable.
Perhaps you shoud have a chat with your freind ,explain how you feel and see what she says.
Perhaps you would reject her if she tried to to make any real advance towards you?... especially if it was sexual in someway.
Not all relationships have sex in them.One of my gay couple freinds, the one woman had bad relationships with men and nowis happy dating and living with a female partner.
I would say dont rush anything and talk to your freind.
2006-08-16 11:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by robynbiker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first. Stright people can't date gay people. You would be gay. Nothing wrong with that. If you have legit feelings go for it. If all you want is good attention then wait for a better guy. We are out there.
2006-08-16 11:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by musedelirium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you date her, you sure ain't straight anymore. If you don't feel comfortable with it, then don't lead her on and go through with it. It's ok to be friends, though. I have been hurt by men too, but if you give it some time, I'm sure you will find Mr. Right.
2006-08-16 11:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it...already you're questioning the wisdom of it....you need to ask if its worth losing the friendship if you get involved and things dont work....find a nice man because there are many out there looking for nice women.....nothing wrong with discussing this with your friend...let her know how you feel but also stress how wrong it would be to use her in this way and that you value the friendship more as it is now.
2006-08-16 11:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by felicitym2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to pass up a guy with a hard c o c k for a tongue? That's stupid to turn gay because of a guy. Who does that?
I love d i c k and would never trade it in for a lesbo dike. Now, if she wants to get me lubed up for the c o c k, that's different. : )
2006-08-16 11:08:27 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋