Past couple of Months I have been having sex with my boyfriend and I been noticing that we will have sex sometimes he will *** but most of the time he won't.. he will blame it on him gaining weight.. which he has, and that he is fine!! he just wants to please me. or just like last night.. we been going at it and then all of the sudden he gets off and says that he is tired, he's sweating ... I feel bad for him so I start giving him head and his penis is still hard at this point but about 4 min into it it get soft.. and at this point I'm in my feelings.. and I'm about to lay down and I guess he see's the look on my face.. so then he jumps on top me and start going to work... he finishs (Thank GOD) we been together for 5 years and I LOVE him to Death!!!But I just want to make sure that the sex still feels good to him and that it is not me. When we first got together he was 19 years old and we use to be at it like rabbits.. now basically he says he is not in his prime anymore. is that true
2006-08-16 03:55:51 · 4 answers · asked by ReRe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It probably IS true and weight gain DOES have something to do with it. He isn't feeling his sexiest, so he has lack of confidence and all of that can hinder sexual performance.
2006-08-16 04:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm religious so I am against premarital sex, that could have something to do with it, but anyways, Is or has he been on drugs? I don't think its you, but he may be depressed about something. Communication is the Key.. Allowing and knowing one to be understanding about any situation.. Help him with the weight, he will gain more self=esteem and confindence. If you do the cooking, find recipes that can change health. Men are usually about sex regardless of there prime state, but yes there prime is around 17-23... Talk, it'll help.
2006-08-16 11:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by tracienmark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't have that problem. You need to be more of a slut, I guess.
The demure ladylike thing sucks when you're fuking. Guys don't like it. They want a whore in bed. : )
2006-08-16 11:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na, he's got something on his mind and it is bothering him, He could have some health issues, or the dreaded... He might be focusing his lust on another.
2006-08-16 11:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by 57chevy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋