i have known this guy for a couple of years and he is gorgeous but i dont want to mess up the friendship by trying an intimate relationship because of all the mixed emotions that can come with the whole thing...jealousy mainly...i like the relationship we have now but at times i wish we could be more...he is super nice and sweet
2006-08-16 03:46:23 · 16 answers · asked by mzredd878 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Bad idea why mess up a good realtionship.
2006-08-16 03:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you are in love or you are to much infactuated by this freind.You both are best freind if you are right but may be you are just friends .Mostly loves grows up from friendship and you are on nice begining. Now your love is just from one side go and talk to your friend about your feelings .I hope he will not embarrase you. But love is not a thing to agree but to realise the feelings of each other.
You can get your beloved in minutes or whole life can take the time. Sometimes only few meetings make you love or sometime many neetings can go wrong.
2006-08-16 03:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by kellen_de 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Jealousy is all a part of it. Trust me, he wants you too...but is holding back with the same reasoning as you. Go for it, don't ask out or anything...just let it happen. I had a very good friend which I was feeling the same way as you are...well, we are happily married now. Best friends know you best, trust you, and understand you the most...it is really amazing to be able to build an intimate relationship with this solid foundation.
2006-08-16 03:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if ur thinking of changing the situation just because he is gorgeous, then I would advise u not to. If u truly feel u have feelings for him in that way, then it would be a beautiful relationship derived from an already good friendship.
2006-08-16 03:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by SADN W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really think about what you are doing.if you really like him and you are willing to do anything then do it ask if he likes you back, but if you dont want to mess up the friendship that you guys have then dont even bother. i think having a relationship with a friend is good and bad in many ways but if you like him then go for it but if your scared then dont even bother
2006-08-16 03:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how close yall are (as friends) if it does not work out will you mind losing him? If your answer is yes then i would keep it simple friends is the best way to go. Jealously is an ugly thing that tears lots of relatioships apart.
2006-08-16 03:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Beatrice C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's interested too then go for it. A friendship is a great foundation for a relationship.
2006-08-16 03:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't scare him and don't rush on him , if you feel he feels the same for you I mean if he sees you more than a friend so it's easier and you can tell him but if you don't feel anything like that don't tell him cz maybe in that case you'll lose him as a friend too!
2006-08-16 04:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him see how he feels about you then when you are comfortable tell him how you feel. a good friend is a great person to get involved with, because you both know each other so well and for a long time.
2006-08-16 03:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be the best yet, but be careful, before you ask about intimacy, make sure that he finds you just as attractive as you find him. Good Luck, if there is attraction from both sides, you might have the best relationship!
2006-08-16 03:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋