well i have my boyfriend of 2 yrs, i also have this guy that i met online that wants to be with me. what do i do? I want to be with my man, and i dont want to break this other guy's heart. what do i do?
2006-08-16 03:44:09 · 18 answers · asked by *Playmate* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you can't have it both ways. You only know this guy on-line you know your boyfriend intimately. You should have loyalty to the person that lives with the real you and has been with YOU (not a computer screen) for 2 and a half years.
If you are unhappy in your relationship then leave him. Otherwise you should tell the other guy that you cannot have a relationship with him. I'm sure his little heart will get over it, yoiu might feel flattered and enjoy the excitement of this illicit semi romance but believe me, in real life things can get quite messy. Your life sounds happy and settled right now so why go messing it up with what amounts to a terrible betrayal of somebody you love and who loves you?
2006-08-16 03:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mick H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the other guy go, before he becomes a serious problem between you and your man. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Let the other guy know how happy you are with your man and that you don't plan to leave him any time soon. Avoid the "lets be friends" subject it can cause big problems in the future. Tell it was fun while it lasted, but now it must come to an END!!!!!!
2006-08-16 03:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by trina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you allow a guy to fall in love with you online while you have a boyfriend without actually cheating on your real bf?
2006-08-16 03:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in a situation like u, have a lovely boyfriend but like the sneaking around with this guy. i no that i would never leave my boyfriend. so dont leave your man for a bit of excitement
2006-08-16 04:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the BF of 2 years. The 'guy' on the net could be a pervert or a serial killer.
2006-08-16 03:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you let yourself get into this situation? Break the other guys heart. He should be after you anyway. If you try to be too nice, then this situation does on and on and get more complicated.
2006-08-16 03:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with your man. Stop looking for places to cheat on him. Break this other guys heart. Enjoy your life and have "lots of sex and babies".
2006-08-16 03:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by 57chevy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boyfriend of two years, you don't go out there and look for another one. That's wrong. If you don't know what to do at this point, just leave your boyfriend because I don't think you're good enough for him.
2006-08-16 03:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have been chatting online with another guy behind your bf's back. Leave both of them, end all contact, and move on. Both of them deserve someone much better then you.
2006-08-16 04:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone once told me that people are always looking for something new because they think that the grass is greener on the other side go check out your grass it might need some watering.
2006-08-16 04:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by dj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋