this thing spoils the whole mood and creats lot of tension.
2006-08-16 03:43:44 · 13 answers · asked by babur 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Most men assume that once they get in the worst is over. What you don't know is that about 1 1/2 to 2 inches in there is another muscle that is similar to the one on the out side. Stretching these muscles is very painful. You need a whole lot of lube. You should make sure she is okay with it and make sure she is relaxed. Then, only go in about an inch. Stop and don't move for a minute. Then go in about another inch. Then don't move for a minute. It has to be a very slow process because it is very painful. You should also tell her everything you do before you do it so she doesn't tense up as much. Be patient. In time maybe, but if it hurts her too badly then stop and try again another time. If you hurt her too much she will be traumatized about it and it will never happen. Don't force it on her and don't make it a big deal and she will feel much better.
2006-08-16 04:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, firstly, are you trying it WITH her permission? I don't mean to assume but you didn't' really elaborate, and if you don't have permission to be doing what you're trying back there, that's reason #1 for her to get upset and cry.
Secondly, if you DO have permission, then put yourself in her shoes for a minute. That tends to be pretty painful at first, especially if she's never done it before! Think of how you'd like it if someone was going "in the out door" on you. OUCH! I would recommend starting off slow - use your fingers or maybe a small toy (beads or something of the like) and gradually working up to it. It'll be much easier on her and she'll most likely enjoy herself a lot more than it sounds like she is. ALSO! Don't forget to use a good lubricant like KY Jelly. I wouldn't recommend the warming to start off with, go simple for the first time.
2006-08-16 03:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by crysania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesnt want you doing it. Instead of continuing to try even after you know she cries, try doing something she likes before she ends up leaving you for someone that understands her needs. I am sure that it hurts her. I mean how would you feel if she took a dildo or something and stuck it up your ***? Sounds painful right? Then quit tryin on her. To keep trying everytime you have sex knowing she cries is just downright rude and mean since you know she doesnt like it. Try other ways to have sex besides anal sex. I mean come on, that place is an exit only (stuff comes out, stuff does not go in).
2006-08-16 04:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's crying it means it hurts her. Either stop all together or figure out a way to make it easy for her. If you care about her enoughto have sex with her, you should care about her ian as well. If she's not happy why do it. That type of sex is forbidden in my religion because it spreads disease and it's painful for the woman. Just stick to the old fashion way.
2006-08-16 05:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she is crying then you might be able to slove the problem better. Because, if she is crying because she does not like it. You might need to talk with her on the subject, and explain why you like it. However, if she is crying because it hurts then you need more lube and take it slow, and let her move around so she can take it in better.
2006-08-16 07:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm specific he's basically chilly. it relatively is particularly general for toddlers to in comparison to thier diapers or clothing replaced. My daughter is 15 months now and he or she consistently cried once I replaced her diapers whilst she became smaller. i offered a wipe warmer for the wintry climate months and that looked as though it might help with the diaper adjustments. besides the undeniable fact that she nevertheless hates the 1st situation interior the morning diaper exchange. She did strengthen out of the changing clothing situation via fact now she prefers to run around with basically a diaper.
2016-11-04 22:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK try lubricant, KY gel. Go in slowly. And if still hurt her, give it up. That door was never meant to be an entrance door anyway. Try a horse, a cow a gay man.
2006-08-16 03:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by bonecrusher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hurting her. Better stop and think of other ways. Try to be sensitive to her needs and not on just what you want.
2006-08-16 03:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because it hurts her, don't you have enough of her front, you need to go on her behind also you freak!
Why don't u try sticking something up ur @$$ and see if it hurts or not. Don't just think on your needs and what pleasures you......EWwwwwWW you're something........
2006-08-16 05:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by Lesley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably hurts her...try it slowly. The muscles back there are not used to things going in there, so she needs to learn to relax them.
2006-08-16 03:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by birdbeach19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋