2006-08-16 03:42:40 · 10 answers · asked by notoldjustwise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Of course there is such a thing as a man being an evil step father but the man should not be like that because eventually, the mother may get irritated and divorce the man because most people love their children more than anything else in the world. If a man finds it hard to be a step father, maybe he should seek counseling to discover why he feels this way and search inside himself to find the answer, (soul-searching).
2006-08-16 03:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sapphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its very difficult to be a step father. And Yes there are some very difficult and to go that far Evil Stepfathers.
Personally I myself would never attempt Dating or God forbid Marrying a lady with kids. It is unfair to everyone involved. The Kids get upset that mom is giving attention to a strange man. And the mother most the time should and will put her kids 1st leaving the guy high and dry...
I am a product of a Step Father a good man yet I would never recommend to anyone. Sure you can make things work and many cases it does and has...
2006-08-16 03:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom re-married when I was 14. I hated my step father. He was nice at first but then he turned into an a**, he was rude and childish and is still an a** to this day, I'm now 25. I still don't talk to him, I mean I'm not rude to him, we just don't talk to each other.
Anyway, if you're becoming a step dad, patience is key. Even if the kids treat you like you're not a part of the family just keep being nice and show your best side. Be fair, let the kids know that they are important and that you are not out to hurt them or their mother.
2006-08-16 04:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it would be hard for a man to be the stepfather because you'll never be there dad no matter how hard you try. Now if they call you dad from the beginning then you'll always be dad until you don't deserve it. And one day they will throw it in your face. I have heard of bad stepfathers, but mostly the evil part mainly applies to the wicked evil stepmother.
2006-08-16 03:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it is hard for a man to be a stepfather, specially when he never has any kids himself or when he's still in the growing up process (immature). He'll think like a child himself which is definitely not good parenting.
But it is not impossible. I suggest trying to think of the stepchild as your own child first and perhaps everything else will come with time.
2006-08-16 04:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard but it can be done. I would suggest reading some material in books or on the internet about step parenting. You have to learn to accept your new wives children as your own. You are not going to have an automatic love for them like you would your own child. You will have to work hard at building the relationship. It can be very rewarding if you are willing to put forth the effort.
Good luck!
2006-08-16 03:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easier for men than for women to be a step-parent.
Never heard of "an evil step father".
2006-08-16 03:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll be fine as long as you learn your boundaries, don't try to discipline,that's not your job, the best thing you can do is support.
2006-08-16 03:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by kelley p 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is..same as a wicked stepmother
2006-08-16 03:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by scarlet_bat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah
2006-08-16 03:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by nanajm05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋