my wife is not as tight as she was prebirth ...She gave birth 4 months ago .she dont enjoy sex as much as well...... and for me she is really loose and I can feel her as good as before..... will she tighten up naturally or if what are our options??
2006-08-16 03:36:55 · 19 answers · asked by WomanCandy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
people are in denial so so sad...if the truth was told/taught in school we would have way less pregnancies....and that would be a great thing!
2006-08-17 15:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you, retarded?
You try passing something the size of a watermelon through an opening the size of a lemon and see how "tight" that opening is. And I'm pretty sure it would hurt your wife's feelings to know that you were broadcasting this across the net... I mean, come on dude...
Instead of focusing on the tightness of your wife's vagina, try being intimate in other ways such as back rubs, kissing, cuddling, oral, or even anal sex. And she's probably not as sexual due to the fact that she did just have a baby and her hormones are re-balancing, and she's probably busy enjoying that baby or not getting a lot of sleep not to mention any other obligations she may have; in the span of life four months is not a long time. So give her some time; keigal exercises will help, but it will also help her be more intimate with you if you are being the best new dad you can be. She'll be more receptive to your need for sex if you are more receptive to her need for a helping hand. Remember: you had a part in creating this new life so helping out is more than financial. Be proud of yourself, and of your baby, and especially of her... think about if you had to have the baby.
2006-08-16 04:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, quit being selfish. Common sense alone should have warned you. She just gave birth, genius! Give her some time. Her hormones are on an emotional roller coaster right now. And yes, she will tighten up in time. Give her a set of Ben Wa balls to help.
2006-08-16 03:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by Emm 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop worrying about something so petty as to how loose or tight your wife is and BE HAPPY in the fact that you have a woman who loves you and a beautiful new child!
God men are so selfish!!! YOU try squeezing an entire human being out of YOU and see how it leaves YOU feeling!!!
2006-08-16 03:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jylsamynne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had something as big as a baby come out of a little hole you would stretch to. I can't believe all you worry about is sex! Did you ever stop and think maybe your wife is tired and doesn't have the energy? Ask your Mom or her Mom to watch the baby and give her a day of complete rest and then maybe you will get some! Welcome to Parenthood!
2006-08-16 03:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by KIM A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you really think they'd warn you about that?!? LOL!
Your sex days are over kiddo. Once the little ones show up it is best to take up a hobby like bowling or extreme skiing or something. You'll be lucky to get any once a month.
2006-08-16 03:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by szydkids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may tighten back up, its only been 4 months, give it some more time. Your options if she doesn't, you get a bigger penis or she gets her vagina tightened surgically, but I think thats a little extreme. If she does kegel exercises it will help to
2006-08-16 03:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry everything will be as it was before. As far as her not enjoying talk to her about it. A new baby means sleepless nights, not feeling very attractive, she has someone else to take care of now, so shes not spending as much time on herself.
2006-08-16 03:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You needed someone to tell you that shoving a bowling ball through a garden hose might stretch it out?
Tell her to try Kegel exercises.
And start putting assets in your name, just in case you decide to bail. With all she has to deal with, if this is the biggest problem you have you might be doing her a favor.
2006-08-16 03:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She has to do Kegal. Unfortunately, she'll never go back to the way she was but the Kegal can help tighten up a little.
2006-08-16 03:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, how self-centered is that? Is that really your main concern after the birth of your first child?
2006-08-16 03:43:13 · answer #11 · answered by captlex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋