My wife asked me when we were engaged if black dudes were really bigger. I said I didn't know. Why did she ask? Ladies - do you really wonder this?
2006-08-16 03:02:11 · 21 answers · asked by cj_stamis@yahoo.com 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
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2006-08-18 12:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by HANK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wonder, it's not true. I never really wondered until a guy I was dating started going on about it. About how he was small for a black man. I'd dated several black men before and walked in on my black step-dad(traumatic, yet educational), this guy who was whining about being small (he was by no means small), was the biggest of the black men, but not the biggest of all the men I've known. It seems black men hold themselves up to a very high and unrealistic standard. They sure talk about it enough, alot more than any white girls I know. In my vast experience, there are as many little black things as there are little white things. And funny, the big ones were possibly the least enjoyable of the lot.
2006-08-16 10:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by kaplah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must admit that i am proud of the ladies for the lack of racists comments on the questions.
I was told by a chick who had been with both that it makes no difference if he is white or black, she was saying the smallest dude she was ever with was a black dude.
As far as woman wanting it big or not. Those that do want a big one will find it, and those that don't could care less as long as you get the job done.
Why would she ask? If i told you white chicks had blue nipples, wouldn't you want to see for yourself.
2006-08-16 11:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by therealmikebrown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always was. Growing up I was raised a bigot. Something I'm not proud of and glad I've changed my views. However, that didn't stop me from wanting to see black men nude. It probably stoked the fire. I really enjoy the interracial sites that are out there. I remember talking to several girlfriends growing up and the subject would come up. Especially when we would see a black man or boy out somewhere. One of us would usually say "I wonder if black guys really have bigger *****?" It turned into something sexual for me as far as fantasies. My other friends weren't effected that way though. To each his own!
2006-08-16 10:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes we are curious, because people talk about that. But actually size doesn't mean anything. It is important to know the technique of making love. That know only few man in the world.
2006-08-16 10:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by nelli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been with both. Who cares? She was probably curious nothing else. A woman especially a wife wants love not a big one.
Dont read anything into it.
2006-08-16 10:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We wonder about the size of any man. It's one of the many things we wonder about men.
2006-08-16 10:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's true that they on average tend to be bigger. I'm sure they do wonder. Who cares though. If your wife is going to cheat, she's going to cheat, and she might as well take it deep. Lol. I just made that up.
2006-08-16 10:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by John R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have always wondered if this is the case. i remember while i was at school we used to ask have you got a bmw (black mans willy?)
2006-08-16 10:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I could care less about a man's size, no matter what color he is.
2006-08-16 10:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Honestly, I could care less. EVERYONE knows it not the size, but how you do it, anyway.
2006-08-16 10:08:17 · answer #11 · answered by Songbird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋