Me and my boyfriend have been together for about two months and everything is fine. He still talks to his ex who he was in love with and thought he would marry until she cheated on him. One day she saw us walking together at the store and text him saying I saw you with your little girlfriend while I was with him. He has told me that she still wanted be with him and they text eachother all the time. I just want to know if I should be worried.
2006-08-16 02:52:23 · 13 answers · asked by daquiet_one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes, because if he was as hurt as he say taht he is, he would not contact her at all.
2006-08-16 02:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by 2fine4u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He wouldn't still communicate with her like that. She is an ex for a reason, but men have a tendency to play that macho role and he couldn't let his boys talk about him if he stayed with her so dumped her. But of course no one ever knew how ccrushed he was. Adn she knows what she's doing. If they haven't been apart for at least 4mnths before ya'll started dating, you need to reevaluate your relationship. My ex had an ex who used to call him everyday. We broke up and 2 weeks later I saw them in the jewelery store looking at engagement rings and I just had a miscarriage. It's not cute being the rebound, let it go before you get to deep.
2006-08-16 03:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by ksfinney17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. If she still wants to be with him then she will try to get him back. That means flirting and talking about you behind your back. Since he is allowing her to do this then he obviously wants the same thing or wants both you and her at once. Stand up for yourself and tell him its not acceptable. He cannot be friends with someone who wants to come between you and your man. Chances are he won’t be cool with you saying that. He will probably make excuses but don’t listen to them Make it clear that its her or you. He needs to know he can’t have both.
2006-08-16 03:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by zerospacegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah you should be worried. If he was so hurt by her he shouldn't feel the need to communicate with her. My ex and I still talk and his new girlfriend hates me. But if course we still fool around from time to time so I'd say she has reason to be worried. So should you. Put a stop to it now!
2006-08-16 03:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl get out now! you should be worried and you already know that. two months is nothing. walk away and look at it as a learning experience. People that are cheated on will still have feelings for the other person, for sure. do yourself a favor and bail out now!!
2006-08-16 02:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by mml619 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like your the one whos being played a rebound of course. He shouldn't be talking with her If hes with you. They broke up on a bad note he should be without feelings for her. I believe your being played. He needed someone to pass his time to make her jeoulus and than when you least expect it hes going to give you the big dump.
2006-08-16 03:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because he is not sure who he wants talk to him about it ask him if he wants her back or not also suggest that you two not see each other for a short time until he decides who he wants to be with if it's over between him and his ex than let him know that it bothers you and that he should have nothing to do with her anymore
2006-08-16 03:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, obviously they still have feelings for each other. He may be using you to make her jealous. Don't get caught in the middle you will get hurt. Find someone ready to start a true relationship.
2006-08-16 02:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ms understood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello??? 2 months? he's not over her that's for damn sure...sorry to break it to you but it's only a matter of time before they are back together...they are still in contact...if he was so hurt by her cheating he would have broken all ties with her and that's putting it honestly....besides i cheated on my ex several times...left him had a child with another man and he still wants me....
2006-08-16 03:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would be worried. But I'll do something about it instead of keep worrying.
I'd request him stop seeing or texting each other, or else, that is cheating on me, just as his girlfriend on him.
If he wants to be with her, I'll leave.
If he wants to be with me, leave her.
2006-08-16 03:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be cautious, don't get crazy or anything. and if it starts to bother you tell him. he is with you not her you are the one he is suppose to be respecting, and by constatly talking to her he isn't doing that. especially if it is against your wishes.
2006-08-16 02:59:23 · answer #11 · answered by ladybug_luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋