2006-08-16 02:49:56 · 23 answers · asked by Green_Eyez:) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm trying to make my fiance' pay attention to me again:)
2006-08-16 02:52:26 · update #1
Start focusing on yourself. Don't focus on how much me pays attention to you. Do things that make you feel amazing, go shopping, have a makeover, start working out/yoga, take a class, etc. Go out with your mates, once you fill yourself with spunk that does not depend on him - trust me, he will start noticing. Especially when he relizes you are no longer waiting for him to notice you. He will be like "where is she? what is she doing?" and a bit of innocent jealocy from his end can only help.
Just stay real to yourself and do it for you.
If he does not notice, well, then its time to ask a different question on here.
Good luck! And get that groove back girl!
-balroom dancing class, pub with girls, spa day, body massage, pedicure, shoe shopping, learn something new, art, horseback riding...
what do you dream of?
2006-08-16 02:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by floridajunkiegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try something new. Leave them notes so they are constantly reminded of you throughout the day. If you want spice, tell him little naughty things in the notes. Not too much, though. Make him wonder.
Have you talked to him about it? If he's your fiance, it's not a good thing that things are already "comfortable". It should still be exciting. Make sure this marriage is what you both want.
2006-08-16 10:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the things you used to do. Dress they way you used to dress. LOOK the way you used to look (loose weight if you have too). Smell the way you used to smell. Do your hair...
Try role playing: Come home as the OTHER woman (dress provocatively complete with wig), drive a rental car or catch a taxi. Let the neighbors see you (that adds excitement) it will feel like he's cheating even though he's not....
Meet at a club or restaurant as the OTHER woman and let him witness other guys hitting on you and then he moves in for the kill. While other guys are trying to get you, he can send you a drink and them come over and introduce himself and then the two of you dance like strangers off a slow song and then go home together.
Get the idea?
2006-08-16 10:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest one day or when he returns home from work place rose peddles from the front door to the bed room.Dress in your sexiest outfit, meet him at the door, lead him to a bubble bath and bath him ,make sure you have the room darkened and candles in the bedroom and the bath.I think he will be happy you made such an effort to sizzle up your relationship.Good Luck.
2006-08-16 10:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way is to spend time apart and let yourself miss that person. Instead of seeing them call and tell them goodnight. It sucks but I have never been so excited as I was to see him pull up and I knew he was coming to see me. I think they say distance makes the heart fonder and also the body weaker for that one who its waited for. Try it the worst that can happen is you finally get your sock drawer cleared out.
2006-08-16 10:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by sonsweeney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i seen ur post iam married 13 yrs iam going thru the same situation also to the point where is the grass greener on the other side but no iam willing to work on it so isnt my hubb so all thats mentioned in this group here is excellent advice for both you and your partner so lets go for it and have a blast :)
2006-08-16 10:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by cutiepieangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try something different. Remember when u guys first starting dating what did he do to make things romantic and special try to use things u always used just not in a while.
2006-08-16 09:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out of town. Even if it is only like 30 minutes out side of where you live. Stay in a hotel and do a few things around town. Maybe get some sexy lengerie... ya know.
The main thing is if you guys talk about how you feel and then try to have fun together.
2006-08-16 09:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by Kamunyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, look what is causing this??, then I would not see him for a week, do a little shopping a Victoria's Secret, Cook Great Dinner.
he'll love that
2006-08-16 10:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him you don't need him. Do things on your own.(movies, dinner, outings, etc..) Men want to be needed just like women, we are just better at hiding it. If he doesn't do anything to show you he needs you, he may not actually be in the relationship for the long haul.
2006-08-16 09:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by James L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋