well.. i hv the same problem , but MY problem is worst.he is 17years older then me. so 10 is NOTHING.. go wit him.. 10 is ok. my bf is elder but he seems VERY GOOD,he act nothing as like his age,my bf is ok.first i thought he is 14years elder but then he said he is 39,(im22)...girl read my questions and understand me better.. im waiting for ur opinion..read and look if u do love him,as i do love my bf. so u will giv ur decision.. and (ur not going crazy!!)
2006-08-16 02:50:06
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answered by she-ra 2
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Hey,
I'd like to help you on this because I married a man 9 years older then me. I think the biggest thing to consider is if your maturity levels are close to being the same. If you can connect on that level then age shouldn't matter. If you can relate and understand each other then you ought to have a great relationship. Also, how old are you now? If you're 12 and he's 22 then that might be a bit more complicated . . . I think once you get out of school and into the "adult world" age really isn't very relevant. I will warn you, sometimes there are problems between my husband and I and the age difference is the reason. That's because he's experienced things in life for nine more years than I have and he knows more things. (Sometimes that irritates me - I want to be right all the time!) But in the long run, it's a good thing because he's got the wisdom that I lack and it helps us make better decisions. We have a blast together and we've just celebrated our first anniversary - more in love than ever!
Hope this helps, Girl! Good luck!
2006-08-16 10:01:38
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answered by April 1
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I know you won't want to hear this, but it sounds like you are very young. 10 years is huge when you are a teenager. Besides there being a huge emotional gap between you, if you are not 18, it is illegal. Find someone your age. Go out with the girls and have a good time. Find a sport or club with school to join. Do something to take your mind off him. You are not ready to deal with the problems that would arise with an older man.
2006-08-16 09:48:40
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answered by agentm006 4
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Well if you just used to flirt with him then it should be no problem forgetting about him. Now if you two were in relationship, then you have to take time to rebuild yourself. Establish a relationship with yourself again, keep busy. Your mind can only meditate on but so much. Age is only anumber, there are men who are 50 yrs old and they still don't know what they want out of life. So the age thing is just a crutch/smokescreen.
2006-08-16 09:51:22
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answered by ksfinney17 2
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if you love him and he the same for you and you get along,who cares if hes 10 years older than you.Age is just a number.You are 18 right?Once your 18 it dosent matter because its legal then lol.Tell him how you feel and i bet he feels same way.I will tell you this my dad is 50 and my mom is 62 they have been married 27 years.I am 25 and my husband is 37 we have been together 7 years so age diffrence dosent matter,its all about the people involved.Give it a shot it may be the best thing in your life.And look at it this way to hes older he has more experience in certain fields.Catch my drift?Good luck to ya
2006-08-16 09:58:21
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answered by Anonymous
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get over it. so what , ten yrs is no big deal!!!!! I have 2 relationships that the man was 10 yrs older and one where i was 10 yrs older,they were the 3 best times of my life!! enjoy him,have fun! if it was meant to be it will last if not then move on!and most importantly don't let other people influence u, this is your life,live it!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-16 10:04:00
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answered by Linda G 1
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just take it slow there a a great number of couples a lot older than 10 years different in their age if it's really love than the age difference won't matter also if your in your 30's or 40's it will be a lot easier to accept the age difference
2006-08-16 09:50:17
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answered by papasmurf 3
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ummm... if you're 20 and he's 30 then go for it... but if you're 14 and he's 24 you just need to find a nice, cute guy at school who is under the age of 18. He probably has fun with you but he's not going to persue anything because it's illegal! Find someone who closer in age who can share your life's changes and growth.
2006-08-16 09:48:17
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answered by Anonymous
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Ask him out on a date and see if he is the guy for you. Granted there are tons of stories about the bad older guy but there are tons were the situation worked too! Take a leap of faith...don't later on wishing you had!
2006-08-16 09:47:11
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answered by Mark S 3
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I don't think age is an issue. My fiance is 10 years older than me
2006-08-16 09:49:00
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answered by Style 3
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