My husband and I have just had our second threesome with another girl: And I must admit it was wonderful: We are both going to try out a guy soon (once we find the right man) We have been together for 8 years and our very commited to each other and are just spicing up our sex lives:
Has anyone else ever tried inviting a third party in to their beds and was it what you expected?
2006-08-16 02:39:42 · 31 answers · asked by BabyFaced Luvbug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We have done this several times and loved every minute of it. Set the guidelines and enjoy. Picking the right 3rd party is a must
2006-08-16 02:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by sarah l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, done it and definitely would do it again. Rules set beforehand can eliminate the awkwardness of asking during the action, all involved must be aware of the rules set, and everyone must agree to obey them, or it just won't happen. Spend time outside the bedroom with the 3rd party first, at a cozy restaurant maybe? Get to know each other. If you'll be sharing your bodies with them, might as well be able to call them a friend first? Honesty, and respect is a must amongst all involved. I've done the threesome, and foursome thing myself, and it was everything I expected, and more! Good for you to be able to do this and feel good about it as well! Some people can be pretty uptight to even the mere thought of it!
2006-08-16 06:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first threesome when i was just 18... (sound rather awful i know!!) And it wasnt exactly what i had expected. It was o.k but theres nothing like being intimate with the one you love and nothing else really compared. In my opinion, i did it just to experiment at the time, but im well past it now that i have found a person who truly loves me-frankly, i dont need anyone else to "spice" my relationship up (no offence) as i already have it... so i dont have to look elsewhere!
2006-08-16 08:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so happy for you. Sex becomes so boring after you have been married for 10-15 years. Having threesome is a great way to get out of that rut.
2006-08-16 02:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by jack 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I actually had 2 girls invite me once!!
It happened like this. I was visiting a good friend with whom I had slept with before. From all her wiggling and smiling I knew she was pretty horny which in term got me exited. One of her friends was there too however. When she got up to go to the bathroom. I started talking dirty to my friend but she said she didn't feel like just tossing her friend out. What I didn't realise was that the other girl had overheard every word and simply said there was no need to throw anyone out!!!
Had a great time and we repeated it several times
afterwards I actually found out that they had actually discussed their plan of action even before I set foot in the house. And how I felt used(only kidding)
2006-08-16 02:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haven't tried it.. not married so i wouldn't try it while i'm just in a regular committed relationship.. don't want to share him but wouldn't mind sharing myself w/another guy instead of girl..
now if i could find 2 guys that aren't my man then i would try it.. if i were married and wanted to spice up our relationship then i wouldn't mind as long as i picked both the guy and girl.. u know so that i can make sure they don't keep in contact w/us later on..
but good for u and ur husband.. they were discussing it on the radio on hot 97 w/mrs jones and a woman called in and said u just have to be secure in ur relationship and she said her and her hhusband enjoyed it to..
2006-08-16 02:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my wife was alive we developed trusting bonds with numerous individuals. Both of us woked in the adult entertainment industry and sex was all around us. Now that she has passed away I have found it difficult to settle with one partner. My sexual preferences have made my relations with other couples simplistic. I have pleasured many of my friends wives while introducing their husbands to fulfilling man to man action. Ensuring clear guidelines is important. Keeping emotional lust thoughts is harmful and can result in lost friendships. Many of the relations that get emotional have been anonymous meetings.
2006-08-16 03:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont like this question. I thought marriage was about 1 woman and 1 man not 3 somes look out you might get a disease. Its like telling your wife go out and cheat and I will cheat too. So what happens when you come home and your wife is with some other dude giving him the sex. She says shes sorry and than you have to tell her this has got to stop.
2006-08-16 02:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
We have done it a few times. It was a wonderful experience but we both enjoyed an orgy a whole lot better. Maybe because it seemed less personal, who knows. Good luck and enjoy ALL life has to offer!
2006-08-16 02:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I must say I have with my husband and another girl. I can not do it again. lol It caused so many proublems with us, Jelosey, for one. But the actual event was fun dont get me wrong. we just had alot of proublems, The girl thought she could have her way with my husband anytime she wanted. I am so glad it is working out for you! I would love to have my husband and another guy! lol
2006-08-16 02:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by zombie_girl_84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋