I am just in a state of shock.
2006-08-16 02:29:50 · 82 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok let's get this straight... - there are so many sides to you, being a 21 yr old 800lb midget who works in a office who is thinking of having an affair with his secretary- who is 34, , seeing 5 other girls on the side. Your hobbies include eating dogs and killing neighbors cats, slashing tires, threatening your 2 kids, disowning your grandson... [interesting one this is , a 21 year old grandfather...nice.] Your future goals are to be a male prostitute, start a cult, learn martial arts, & take over the world. you are interested in space, the moon in particular, you hear voices and have conversations with God, and something about ghosts. At one point you were looking into GAINING weight. Now you are bothered by your mail order bride masturbating??
JUSTIN GREEN..... Get off you parents computer and go clean your room!!!!! Right this instant young man!!!!!
2006-08-16 02:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by DrVodka 3 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is completely normal, even for married husbands and WIVES. Incorporating this into your shared sex life can even prove to be exciting. This isn't grounds for divorce. You should enjoy your wife's sexuality. If she's a compulsive masturbator then perhaps she needs help, but otherwise she's a perfectly normal woman. Most people masturbate, even women. There is no reason to be shocked, though it may seem taboo to talk about it. Also, her masturbation does NOT mean that she is not satisfied with your shared sexual life. Nor does it threaten your manhood or sexuality. If you love her and she's done nothing wrong outside of masturbating, please don't consider divorce.
2006-08-16 02:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by elf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u mean, give her one more chance. what year are you living in. dont you masturbate ? when you are taking a shower, or you are by yourself and thinking about your wife or whoever else might pop in your brain. just because she masturbates it is not time for you to hang up your marriage over something so natural that all humans have the right to do. maybe she was under stress, maybe she wanted to satified herself. did you ever even talk to her about it and found out why she did it. or did you just jump to conclusions and amused the worst. talk to her, ask her if she would like to do it together with you. masturbate together.
why are you in a state of shock? because you caught her or because you were just amazed that she could satified herself and did not need you.
relax, its natural and you feel very relaxed afterwards.
2006-08-16 02:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she needs, you do not divorce someone over a simple matter as this.... should she divorce you for leaving the toilet seat up? I think not. youw wife was looking for a way to ease her sexual tension.... yes she should have come to you but she didnt, you need to find out why. Love your wife..... and keep her.She wasnt cheating on you with another man or woman so i'd say grow up and meet her needs then she wont be masturbating.
2014-10-02 19:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out how to pleasure your wife in such a way as she needs, you do not divorce someone over a simple matter as this.... should she divorce you for leaving the toilet seat up? I think not. youw wife was looking for a way to ease her sexual tension.... yes she should have come to you but she didnt, you need to find out why. Love your wife..... and keep her.She wasnt cheating on you with another man or woman so i'd say grow up and meet her needs then she wont be masturbating.
2006-08-16 07:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by Joyann R 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your in Shock ???? My gosh man where have you been for all your life ? Have'nt you learned anything about the natural things of life ?
You must of stayed up all night thinking of some question like this - to make sure you got some hot answers . Are you writing a novel or somewthing ???
What a goofy guy ...
2006-08-16 03:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by newkirkb52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get a divorce over that? Most men like to watch their significant other do that. I know my husband would be thrilled. It's not like she was doing someone else. Join in next time. It may be exciting for the both of you.
2006-08-16 02:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for an excuse to divorce her or what? There is nothing wrong with masturbating. Get a grip.
2006-08-16 02:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gosh give the poor woman a break. She might of been tense or needed relief just be glad it was not another man. Give her another chance explain to her that you would prefer not to see her doing that and next time she should lock the door, Are you satisfying her? If not think about it and if you are do not feel bad it has nothing to do with you it was just something she needed at that time.
2006-08-16 02:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by mustang.suzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with masturbation whether you are married or not...now if she was caught cheating it would be a different story so just chill out and relax and do not worry about it I am sure you masturbate too cause most people do...hell I ever masturbate still even though I am married so don't give it a 2nd thought....most men think it's hot!!!
2006-08-16 02:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by lildevilchild_87 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋