How can you know if someone cares/loves you?
I met him when I was 14 years old, four years ago, he was 19 years old. From the way he acts around me and the nicknames he has given me, it suggest he does like me more than a friend.
He also seems to get a little jealous around any boyfriend I get. They end up leaving thinking I am cheating on them! Saying that the way he acts suggests there is something going on between us two!
But then if he did really care about me he would just come out and say it, would he not? Plus he has had some boyfriends too, why would he if he cared about me? But then the way he treats me when he is in a relationship... It just confuses me! I also think I might be in love with him......
2006-08-16 02:23:25 · 24 answers · asked by Conor 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Use your back bone and go up and talk to him.
2006-08-16 02:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babe best thing to do is have words with him. You have both been friends a long time so he may just be really over protective. If once you have both chatted and u decide you wana date then thats good, but you need to talk so you can both get some closier on the subject and move on in which ever way you can, weather being together or getting your own partners. But you should still try and be friends
L x
2006-08-16 02:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by uclanstudent06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like a male version of sugar rush! Why don't you hint about your feelings for him, he is probably worried that your not interested in him in that way and he'd rather say nothing then risk your friendship. By dropping hints that you feel the same way he might gain the courage to open up. If that fails just come right out and ask, I know you men don't do subtlety! : )
2006-08-17 07:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Chez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
He might NOT just say it. Lots of bois are damaged emotionally in ways that don't let them do that.
You can do it though.
Go to him, ask him to have dinner with you.
Tell him that you like him and may be in love with him, but that you didn't think he liked you that way, Tell him you want him to like you that way, but that if he doesn't, then you want him to be your beloved friend but not drive away your boyfriends. Ask him to tell you the truth. Be hesitant and scared (that part won't be hard because I think that's what you feel for real) and if you can, hold his hand while you tell him this.
He isn't going to hurt you physically, and it will clear the whole thing up.
There is no need to be confused.
And if he loves you too, then congratulations. *hug* Email me if you need to talk.
And please, in advance of reading anything anyone else wrote -- ignore any and all idiots that respond.
Be in love,
Kindest thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2006-08-16 03:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*groan*
What ever happened to people just TALKING to eachother! Why do people insist on having angst ridden doubts and longings when if we just TALKED together, told people how we feel, we'd know?
I realize that it might be a fear factor. That people get shy or anxious. But come on, it's so much easier when the cards are laid on the table and games cease to be played.
If you like him, and you think he likes you, you go up to him and tell him how you feel. How many years might be lost to you because you are afraid to approach him?
We only get this one, particular life ONE time. You've got to live each day like it's your last, because it is....No day will ever be the same!
2006-08-16 05:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-16 02:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably does. and maybe he's nasty to you when he is in a relationship because he's upset he is in a relationship but not over you, or because he sees it as getting back at you for not being in love with him. it's perfectly natural. if you really do like him back, i say GO FOR IT. and i wish you the very best of luck.
2006-08-16 04:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by kittens 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a quite similar relationship at the moment. My guy (that's my suspicion) does it because he doesn't know very well what he wants. Somehow inmature, you know? But I don't know what the reason of your friend is...
2006-08-17 00:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Alberto E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some of the other responses! Suck it up and go talk to him. You'll never know what's going on if you don't speak your mind.
2006-08-16 02:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop fretting and grow a set. Ask him straight up so you can stop being confused.
2006-08-16 02:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about it.
I wouldn't go up and ask him directly but do it during a conversation, e.g Talk about you wanting a boyfriend? ect.
2006-08-16 02:32:02 · answer #11 · answered by djw008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋